Naturally “how to make your wife happy” will have to do with your own emotional input, and a understanding of hers! Women are very delicate beings at the best of times, and like men, they are very different from on to another. The delicacy to their happiness would be like comparing an old stock standard 4 cylinder engine, to the high tech models of today, to keep them running smooth, requires maintenance and a good amount of learning.
Gone are the days of being able to keep your wife locked up at home to do all of the “wife duties” that we are led to believe they should be doing. You may be able to find 1 out of 100 that could be happy from these expectations, but its a fact that woman that are treated as equals with all responsibility based around your life, and marriages are happier than those that have general expectations, to be the no1 “clean up after me” its your duty. Marriage is about being a team, I am not saying that you are to be the one who does everything, but by not expecting that, and helping out where ever does make for a happier wife…
Woman who are emotionally involved tend to have a high concern on how there partner feels about everything that they are involved in, where us men tend to hold our emotions. A lot of marriages do fail because we don’t learn to communicate effectively, particularly with the negative happenings in our life, wife’s who feel like they are a part of you because you can talk with them about what goes on, good and bad, feel like they are have worth and are needed as part of your team…
Making love to your wife is far grater than than just having sex, you can make love all day long with your words and your actions. Everyone of us has little buttons that make us tick, touching a certain place on the body, my wife has a place on her back that I can touch and she cant wait for me to get home. Always be flirtatious in conversation, good eye contact with that smirky smile of yours that she seems to like, subtle gestures towards the way she makes you feel. It is all about building your friendship, being honest and keeping that spark alive.
Gone are the days of being able to keep your wife locked up at home to do all of the “wife duties” that we are led to believe they should be doing. You may be able to find 1 out of 100 that could be happy from these expectations, but its a fact that woman that are treated as equals with all responsibility based around your life, and marriages are happier than those that have general expectations, to be the no1 “clean up after me” its your duty. Marriage is about being a team, I am not saying that you are to be the one who does everything, but by not expecting that, and helping out where ever does make for a happier wife…
Woman who are emotionally involved tend to have a high concern on how there partner feels about everything that they are involved in, where us men tend to hold our emotions. A lot of marriages do fail because we don’t learn to communicate effectively, particularly with the negative happenings in our life, wife’s who feel like they are a part of you because you can talk with them about what goes on, good and bad, feel like they are have worth and are needed as part of your team…
Making love to your wife is far grater than than just having sex, you can make love all day long with your words and your actions. Everyone of us has little buttons that make us tick, touching a certain place on the body, my wife has a place on her back that I can touch and she cant wait for me to get home. Always be flirtatious in conversation, good eye contact with that smirky smile of yours that she seems to like, subtle gestures towards the way she makes you feel. It is all about building your friendship, being honest and keeping that spark alive.
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