Are You In Love?

So you think that you are in love. Are you sure? How? Why do you think that you are in love? Why do you think that it is not temporary attraction? Why do you think that you both are destined to grow old together? Let us try and find out.

Do you feel happy with your beloved? Do you feel that if you both were left alone on an island for seven days, you would enjoy it? Or you will get bored? How about your self esteem? Does your beloved make you feel good about yourself? Is his/her focus on your good qualities or sometimes faults? What about you? Are you looking for some signs of weaknesses in certain areas, or are contented and satisfied with the whole package?

Love is different than any other relationship and has its own measures. It goes beyond friendship and one has to ask questions to find out if it is love and nothing else. Coming back to our inquiry, what if your beloved gets you some clothes? Will you be delighted and wear immediately, or will you try to look at it critically to find out how you will look in that particular piece of clothing?

Do you smile at the thought of your beloved? Get dreamy? Want to share everything good? Say, you see something good, or complete a some work very satisfactorily, will you immediately tell your beloved about that? Will you impatiently wait to share that? Do you ever compare him/her with others? Give a second look to someone of opposite sex? No? What if the person is stunning in looks? Would you still rather never think of giving a second look and continue with the thoughts of your beloved? What if you go to a movie together? Will you try to look at each other in the darkness or rather watch the movie? Do you watch the movie at all while you are together? Are you planning of the future together? Having children, a new home, new life, etc? Do you talk about how you both would like to spend your old age together? Have you also thought about the career options after marriage? If your answers to all above queries is in positive, you need to look at the relationship seriously. Because you are in love! Love is difficult to find out. Many times, we feel that we are in love, only to find out afterwards that it was not love. It is better to make sure that it is love before committing. Wishing you all the best.

We are given a short life. We must enjoy every moment. If you believe that you are in true love, please do not delay further. Proceed with marriage immediately.

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The Magic Of Love

Love, the very word brings forth feelings of warmth. Love, a relationship, which makes us whole. A companion with whom we share all our emotions, our life, our thoughts, our body, our everything. That is love and lucky are those who fall in love.

During the initial phase of love, there is a tremendous passion and a desire to keep on sharing everything. Keep on telling about how one loves their beloved in so many different ways. In this phase, lovers speak of flowers, stars, moon, and so many other objects that one can find to define love.

All of us have our own style of sending love messages. Some write their own poems. Some send small notes. Some send very long letters and some search for poems that can reflect their emotions. Searching for gifts, and sending messages, meeting, enjoying life together, and so many other such activities mark the initial phase of love. Love is indeed mysterious because you will find poems being written by those about whom you had never suspected this. Your most ordinary looking practical gardener will develop dreamy eyes and start sending love notes after falling in love! PG Wodehouse wrote about this in most of his stories with great fun and understanding.

The best part of love messages arrives after many years. Show a lover what he/she did many years ago and they will themselves not believe that they wrote all that gibberish. That is love.

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Tough love: how being strong in a relationship can be romantic

Everyone has heard of “tough love,” or a relationship in which one partner has to make difficult decisions for the good of the other partner. Tough love is more often associated with platonic love or parenting, but romantic relationships can also occasionally benefit from practicing a little tough love.

Tough love in a romantic relationship doesn’t necessarily mean being forceful with your significant other, although it could include that if your lover is practicing self-destructive acts that are a threat to themselves or your relationship. Instead, tough love usually involves being strong enough to make your romantic relationship the number one priority in your life and defend it against outside threats that could harm it.

Make no mistake about it: having the strength to face threats to your romance is an important aspect of building a romantic relationship, and tough love is sometimes a necessity. While things between you and your lover may be just peachy, outside threats, such as your career, family members or other stresses, could combine to sabotage an otherwise successful relationship. In these situations, tough love is in order to defend your relationship.

But don’t confuse tough love with being rude, unreasonable or pushy in your relationship! Tough love can be practiced in a measured fashion, and just because you perceive a threat to your relationship doesn’t mean that you should get overly protective or issue threats in return. Simply remaining strong, supporting your sweetheart, and letting others know in no uncertain terms that your relationship is your number one priority is usually all the tough love that is required.

And as for practicing tough love when it comes to protecting your romantic partner from threats to themselves and your relationship, remember to approach the situation with plenty of objectivity and understanding. Rather than being judgmental and condescending, use a more gentle form of tough love by starting a conversation with your lover about the mistakes you think they are making. Calmly tell them why you think these things are threatening, how you want to help them, and ask for their thoughts and ideas as well. You don’t have to be controlling or pushy to practice tough love with your partner.

Remember, just because you’ve decided to start using tough love to improve your relationship doesn’t necessarily mean you have to get tough. Simply be strong, practice understanding, and make your romance your number one priority, and you’ll be using all the tough love you need to!

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Bring romance to your relationship by unplugging your dishwasher

Yup, you read that headline right: unplugging that automatic dishwasher isn’t just a way to save on your electric bill, but it’s also one of many great romantic ideas that can add some good old-fashioned romance to your relationship. But how?

There’s no big secret to making your loving relationship or marriage more romantic. Romance is all about spending time with your lover, sharing new experiences together and making them the most important part of your life. And sometimes doing the simplest things together helps us become more comfortable and romantic with each other; things like preparing a meal together, going for a walk together . . . or even washing the dishes together.

Even if you’re by yourself, washing your dishes by hand can be a calming, relaxing and meditative experience. Don’t laugh! The warm water, the gentle scrubbing, and the attention needed to be paid to each fork and glass can combine to help you get your mind off of your troubles and release tension.

Similarly, washing the dishes with your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband is a super way to relax, spend time with each other, and work together. Washing, rinsing, and drying each dish together, and incorporating some romantic touching and communicating while you’re doing it, can be a bonding experience that will add a new dimension to your relationship. And it’s a great followup to sharing a romantic meal together!

Even if it’s just once a week, washing the dishes by hand with your lover is one simple thing you can do to add more old-fashioned romance to your relationship. So unplug that dishwasher, get the water running, and cozy up for some squeaky clean romance!

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What speed dial number do you use for your sweetheart?

What speed dial number do you use for your sweetheart?

Here’s a quick question for Romance Tracker readers: do you have the phone number of your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband programmed into your cell phone’s speed dial? If so, what number are they programmed under? Did you pick that number because it was the next one available, or does your lover’s speed dial number have some special significance?

Before you laugh, there are plenty of romantic ideas for why you might want to assign a specific speed dial number for your sweetheart! Pressing number one on my cell phone dials my significant other, because she’s most important thing in mylife and the number I call the most. But I know other people who put their special someone on number eight because of its resemblance to the “infinity” sign . . . signifying a love that will last forever.

In one of my favorite episodes of “Seinfeld,” Jerry began to resent his girlfriend because she refused to give him the “number one” spot on her speed dial. What do you think? Is number one the best spot to have on your lover’s cell phone, or is it more important to get a number that has some meaning to both of you?

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How to say “I’m sorry” and save your relationship

The importance of apologizing in a romantic relationship or marriage is well known, but it’s amazing how many boyfriends, girlfriends, wives and husbands have a hard time saying “I’m sorry” . . . even if they know it could stave off a breakup or divorce.

It’s a fact that saying you’re sorry (when it’s necessary) is one of the best romantic ideas you could use to improve your relationship, but even in the face of this fact too many couples find it difficult to say those three important little words.

Do you know when to say “I’m sorry?”

It’s a simple question, but an important one: when exactly should we offer an apology to our sweetheart? Not knowing when an apology is necessary or appropriate is a major underlying problem for many people who don’t say they’re sorry. Oftentimes a lover fails to apologize not because they are trying to be rude or mean, but because they just aren’t used to saying it.

If you have been told you don’t apologize enough, you may need to ask yourself whether you need to make an extra effort to pay more attention to the feelings of those around you. While you may not be purposely rude or uncaring, not showing any concern for your sweetheart’s feelings is a quick ticket to a relationship void of romance.

Start with litle “I’m sorry’s” and work up to big ones

If you need to work on your “I’m sorry” skills, start small and work your way up. If you’re a proud or stubborn person (and a lot of us are!), then practicing apologizing for little mistakes is a great way to build up your nerve to say your sorry after a serious argument.

And by starting to say “I’m sory” to your sweetheart even for little mistakes, you’ll show your lover that you really are committed to changing and paying better attention to their feelings!

Saying “I’m sorry” even if you don’t mean it

Does everyone who says “I’m sorry” really mean it every time? Of course not! But one of the secrets to building a successful romance is putting the feelings of your sweetheart, and the health of your relationship, before your own pride and anger.

Saying “I’m sorry” is often all that’s necessary to defuse an argument and set the path to reconciliation. And yes, sometimes it takes a strong person to make a relationship the number one priority and be the first to apologize . . . even when they don’t mean it.

Are you prepared to be that strong person who swallows pride and puts the relationship first? Saying you’re sorry can be a very difficult thing to do, but the rewards that could come your way make it worth the effort.

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Do You Have Anyone Who Cares For You?

Are you a fortunate person to have someone in your life who cares for you? I do not mean care in the sense it is commonly used. But who cares for you like your mother used to, when you were a child? You are a grown-up person now. Does that imply that you do not need anyone to take your care? Do not you need someone to ask you if you are ok? And then to try and make you comfortable? Do not you need someone who knows what you like and then to arrange for it? Do not you need someone who will put balm on your aching legs? Who will smother you with love, when you feel lonely?

Do not you want someone to just come and sit beside you and talk to you in silence? Do not you need someone who will make you cry, because you want to, but can not because you are an adult? Do not you feel that you need someone in front of whom you can cry your heart out? And be sure that someone will wipe your tears? Or because you are adult, such things are not done? Even if one feels extreme pain of any kind, one can cry either in church or all alone in a park? We are adults. But there is a child in all of us. We are fighters, but sometimes we lose the battles. We can bear every pain, but sometimes the pain can overcome our capacity. We all need a person in our life, who can be our mother, even if we are eighty years old. Who can understand that we need care. We wish to be pampered. We want someone to take our face in lap and comfort us. Yes, we can deny all this, but we need someone who cares for us.

All of us need a person who takes our care. If we are allowed to cry, if we are made to speak about all our troubles, if we are pampered to relax us, we will feel heavenly. But unfortunately we are all adults. These essentials of living are for kids. For adults, it is a corner in their homes or in the office, where they can sit and worry and show to the world that they are adults.

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Why romantic emails are a great way to say “I love you”

One recurring theme here on Romance Tracker is using modern technology to add old-fashioned romance to your relationship. In spite of all that the modern world has done to make human relationships more impersonal, there are still many great romantic ideas for using technology to add more spontaneity, fun and excitement to yours.

True romance is really about taking things slowly and paying close attention to even the small details, and the Internet and email are about doing things as quickly and simply as possible . . . but used correctly, they can help nurture and build your relationship. After all, you’ve used the internet to find this post about making your relationship or marriage more romantic, haven’t you?

Much like sending romantic text messages, a spontaneous romantic email is a simple and effective way to tell your wife, girlfriend, husband or boyfriend you are thinking about them at any time of the day. Many of us have gotten sick and tired of seeing our inboxes full of forwarded emails and unoriginal jokes, but an original, romantic email isn’t spam at all. And it doesn’t take much time or effort; something as simple as “I’m busy with work right now, but I’m missing you!” can make your sweetheart smile for the rest of the day!

If you want to get a bit more romantic, why not do some research and send your significant other a single line from a romantic poem every day? Or maybe a beautiful, romantic image you’ve found on the web with a note telling your lover how it reminded you of them?

E-cards are another great way to send lighthearted or serious romantic messages to your sweetheart over the Internet. There are plenty of on-line companies that let you send an ecard for free (just Google “e-cards”), and you can usually personalize them with your own special message. E-cards are a quick, fun way for your to tell your lover you’re thinking about them, and they’re guaranteed to put anyone who gets one into a great mood!

So what are you waiting for? You’re on the Internet right now, so nothing’s stopping you from sending your lover a quick romantic email. Promise yourself to use the Internet to tell that special someone you’re thinking about them at least once a week, and I guarantee your relationship will be better for it!

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Love letter: how to write a great romantic letter

As a professional writer and a relationship advice dude, the topic of writing a romantic love letter is an exciting one for me. While I believe that showing someone your love them is more important than what you say or write, a love letter can occasionally be the perfect compliment to a romantic relationship. There are few better ways to show someone show someone how much you appreciate them than by writing them a heartfelt romantic love letter.

When it comes to romantic love letters, creating a good one is much like any other romantic gesture: it’s a heck of a lot easier than you think it will be. We’ve spoken about writing romantic love poems before on Romance Tracker, and love letters are very similar. Regardless of what your writing skills are, I guarantee you can write a great love letter that your sweetheart will remember forever.

The first mistake that a lot of people make when considering to write a romantic love letter is the form it takes. Not all love letters have to be scrawled out in cursive on a sheet of paper, although that’s fine if you want to do it. With today’s technology, there are plenty of other options available to you for writing a romantic love letter.

If it makes you more comfortable, there’s nothing wrong with using email to write your love letter. As contemporary generations become more and more comfortable with electronic mail, sending a romantic email love letter is nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, many romantic partners might prefer an email love letter over the paper version.

Two other modern technology options you have for sending romantic love letters are instant messaging and text messaging (or SMS). Just because romantic writers of bygone days didn’t have these options available to them doesn’t mean that you can’t take advantage of them to send your sweetheart a love letter.

And remember, a romantic love letter doesn’t necessarily have to take the form of a sappy, poetic message. A short, simple romantic thank-you note or romantic greeting card can also be considered love letters, and are just as effective in showing your sweetheart how much you appreciate them.

As you can see, there are endless options when it comes to how you can put together a romantic love letter for your special someone. If writing out a long, romantic love letter and leaving it on your lover’s pillow is your style, then that’s great. But never forget that a love letter is something that anyone can write, and it can take many different forms . . . short, long, or electronic.

So what are you waiting for? You don’t have any excuse not to write a romantic love letter for your husband, wife boyfriend or girlfriend today. And I guarantee that no matter what you write, if it comes from the heart your love letter will be cherished by your sweetheart forever!

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Love note: how to write the perfect romantic note

Writing a romantic love note for your sweetheart is a great way to add some simple, sweet, spontaneous romance to your relationship. We recently discussed how to write a romantic love letter, which requires a little more time and effort. But a love note only takes seconds to write, can be done any time, and is the perfect way to show your lover you are thinking of them.

Just like love letters, a romantic love note can take many, many forms. The classic version of the love note is to just scribble an encouraging or romantic sentence on a scrap of paper and leave it for your sweetheart to find. It could be a little love note you leave in their lunch, a love note on their pillow at night, or a love note in any location where your sweetheart might stumble upon it and smile!

With today’s technology, there’s no reason why your romantic love note should be limited to paper and ink. There are plenty of ways to use modern technology to send a quick, romantic love note, such as email, text messaging, or even instant messages. Why limit yourself to old-fashioned methods when there are so many different options for sending your love note?

As for what you write in your love note, the options are endless. Your love note could be deeply romantic, if you want it to be, but it doesn’t have to be. Even something as simple and fun as “have a great day, I’m thinking of you!” can do wonders for brightening someone’s day and improving your relationship! And have you considered writing a quick love note on a greeting card and popping it in the mail? That’s another way to surprise your lover and show them how much they mean to you!

If you haven’t written a love note for your sweetheart recently, then now is the time to do it. Romantic love notes cost nothing, are quick and easy to write, and are a great small thing to do to add some extra romance to your relationship. Go grab a pen!

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Is hugging that special someone your first priority when you come home?

Is hugging that special someone your first priority when you come home?

The world is getting busier and faster-paced every day, and adding old-fashioned romantic ideas to your relationship or marriage can be difficult if you have a hectic career or other responsibilities to worry about. On the one hand, part of being an old-fashioned romantic involves working hard to provide for and take care of your family.

But you need to balance that responsibility with paying enough attention to your lover to let them know how important they are to you. Your sweetheart may understand that work or other responsibilities keep you away from home longer than you would like, but do you make sure that they know how much you missed them when you were gone?

Whether it was a week-long business trip or a day at work, you should make sure that giving your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend a big kiss and hug is the first thing you do when you get home. Don’t let the distractions that took you away from the most important thing in your life continue when you return home again.

It’s never a bad idea to bring home a romantic surprise for your lover at the end of a work day or trip. Just keep in mind that the greatest gift you could give your special someone is the simplest and most inexpensive one: a hug!

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Science of love: times when romance and science mix

Science of love: times when romance and science mix

For many of us, romance and love are mysterious and magical experiences that defy all explanations and attempts to quantify them. To think that there is such a thing as a science of love could exist, or that science could be used to make predictions and assumptions about love and romance, is sacrilege to many romantic people. In spite of the fact that much of the mechanics of love and romance are unknown and mysterious to us, however, there is still a science of love that can help all of us when we are looking for or involved in a romantic relationship.

No, there really isn’t such a thing as a literal love doctor in a white lab coat who can give you a love potion or instantly determine the name of your perfect romantic partner. But the science of love can help us determine what works and what doesn’t work in relationships, the physiological differences between men and women when it comes to romance, as well as psychological aspects of human beings that make us love one another.

The science of love includes things as powerful and unexplored as chemical phermones and their effects on our libido and romantic tastes, and other subjects which are perfect for researching in a laboratory. But perhaps more important than physiological aspects of the science of love are the psychological aspects of the science of love. The human mind is still a vast unexplored country when it comes to our thoughts and desires, and psychology plays a much larger role in romance and love than many of us realize.

As the science of love advances and scientists and psychologists make more discovers about why we do the things we do, our relationship and romantic problems will gradually become easier to solve. Still, even with the advancement of the science of love, there will never be a “magic pill,” so to speak, that will instantly make all of our relationship problems go away. No matter how technologically advanced our society becomes or how amazing our inventions are, it will still be up to the individuals in a relationship to work through their romance problems themselves, rather than relying on machines and technology.

So, does the science of love really have any kind of bearing on your relationship? Well, it certainly could, if you decide to study the psychological and physiological advancements that could be effectively applied to your romantic relationship. But rather than relying on the science of love to tell you about romance and solve your relationship problems, it’s better if you approach romance the old-fashioned way: by discovering and growing together!

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Love horoscope: the signs and astrology of romance

Love horoscope: the signs and astrology of romance

There seem to be endless claims out there of free love horoscopes that can tell you what to expect when it comes to romance based on your astrological sign, but should you really base your romantic future on a love horoscope in a newspaper or online? Here at Romance Tracker, we believe that love horoscopes are a poor way to prepare for romance in your life, and that the only horoscope that you should rely on is your eternal sense of how to find true romance.

Love horoscopes claim that you can determine your romantic future and perfect romantic partner based on your astrological sign. While we think that love horoscopes can be fun and aren’t harmful to read and dream about, you should be very careful when using a love horoscope to decide what romantic actions to take in your life. No one knows your romantic needs and desires better than yourself, and a love horoscope could just as easily guide you into the wrong romantic place as the right one.

Are love horoscopes fun to read? Well, sure. They help us to use our romantic imagination, envision our romantic goals, and even laugh a bit at fun romantic predictions. But if your inner feelings tell you that there’s something wrong with the predictions in a love horoscope, you should follow your heart rather than words written by a person who has never met you and knows nothing about your romantic needs and dreams.

It is true that there are different types of people in the world whose preferences and talents can be grouped into predefined sets, and many horoscopes tend to ring true because we all share common desires and needs. But a love horoscope, no matter how enticing or seemingly optimistic, needs to be taken with a grain of salt. Remember: you have more to do with determining your romantic future than the planets and the stars. Take control of your own future and don’t let a newspaper or website set you on a path that makes you feel uncomfortable.

The next time you read a love horoscope, let yourself have fun with it and let your romantic imagination soar. But don’t take every word of a love horoscope as gospel, or you may end up making a mistake that could cost you a future full of love and romance.

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A romantic extramarital love affair? There’s no such thing

In a society that where divorce and cheating partners are becoming more and more common, the idea of a romantic extramarital love affair has been somewhat glamorized by our culture and media. Some husbands, wives, boyfriends or girlfriends who are dissatisfied with their partners may begin to feel that an romantic love affair is somehow needed or justified. But make no mistake about it: there is nothing romantic, necessary or healthy about any kind of affair, and rarely is there any kind of “love” involved in cheating on your significant other.

The myth of a “romantic” extramarital affair has been created by many years of books, movies and other forms of media that make people think the solution to their relationship problems lies in cheating on their spouse or partner . . . but there is no real romance involved in an affair. A truly romantic person doesn’t cheat on their spouse or sweetheart just because they’ve become bored with their love life or they have hit a rocky spot in their relationship. Cheating is wrong, pure and simple, and an extramarital love affair is not appropriate or admirable under any circumstances.

A true old-fashioned romantic person, if they are facing insurmountable relationship problems or if they have fallen in love with another person, will end their relationship before persuing another one. Lying to your significant other and starting an affair behind their back is cowardly, sneaky, unromantic and indefensible. It is better to tell your sweetheart that you wish to end things and do it the honorable way before rushing into another person’s arms and having an affair.

Regardless of how much you think you love this new person in your life or how romantic your feelings for them are, there is nothing at all romantic about an extramarital affair. Whether you are married or just dating, by being part of a romantic relationship you have given your word to your sweetheart to always be faithful to them as long as your relationship remains in tact. By breaking that oath—spoken or unspoken—you have plenty to be ashamed of. It doesn’t matter how bad things are at home . . . you owe it to yourself and your partner to end your relationship before cheating or persuing a love affair.

And remember: there are different types of cheating and affairs, too. There is physical cheating and physical love affairs, and there is emotional cheating and emotional love affairs. A physical affair involves exactly what you think it does, but an emotional affair is much more common . . . yet much less talked about. An emotional affair is when you share confidences, secrets, and feelings with another person that should only be shared with your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend. For an unsuspecting and faithful partner, these kind of affairs can be just as devestating and heartbreaking, make no mistake about it!

So before you embark on an extramarital love affair that you might regret, remember that there is nothing at all romantic about an affair or cheating on your spouse or lover. If you really do consider yourself a romantic person, do the honorable and right thing and break things off with your significant other before starting another relationship, whether physical or emotional.

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Romantic long distance relationships: some advice and tips

Okay, let’s get through the bad news first: most long distance relationships just don’t end up working out. But just because the majority of long distance romances end in failure doesn’t mean your long distance relationship has to, so start thinking optimistically and listen to some advice and tips on making your long distance romance work.

First of all, it’s impossible not to recognize the fact that long distance relationships were much more successful in the past, and that a long distance romance’s chances of success have suffered in our modern society. There are lots of examples of lovers who were forced to leave their partners in past wars for long periods of time, and the majority of those long distance relationships did succeed. World War I, World War II, etcetera . . . some of those marriages were split apart for three or four years, and all they had to keep in touch were sporadic romantic letters.

But wait a second . . . with modern technology, keeping in touch with your sweetheart is even easier, so should long distance relationships be more successful nowadays? Well sure, they should be, but the fact of the matter is that long distance romances are much more fragile today. You can blame it on a more impersonal, hook-up culture or society if you want, but long distance romances are much more difficult to maintain in our modern world.

That’s not to say that your long distance relationship is doomed to failure, though. First of all, what is the reason why you have to go away from your lover and have a long distance romance? Is it out of necessity, for instance a long business trip or perhaps a military deployment? And also, how serious are you with that special someone? Have you dated or been married for years, or are you undertaking a long distance relationship without really having spent much time with them in the first place?

Obviously, a relationship that is already strong and made up of two dedicated partners is much more likely to survive a long distance relationship than one that is shallower and less romantic. If you have plenty of early warning that you will have to start a long distance romance, use the time you have together to discuss what that will mean to your situation and how you will work to make sure you remain committed to each other and in love.

In fact, even if you don’t suspect that you will ever have to spend long periods of time away from your lover, it’s a good exercise to ask yourself how you think you would handle a long distance relationship and whether your romance would be strong enough to endure it. Time alone is important to every individual, no matter how much they enjoy their relationship with that special someone. It might be a good idea to practice spending an afternoon or even a few days away from each other—for a business trip or to visit family members—to reassure yourself that your relationship is healthy enough to endure a long distance situation.

In the end, the old saying about absence making the heart grow fonder is true—to a certain degree. If you and your sweetheart share true romance, then a long distance relationship shouldn’t pose any threat to your future happiness (as long as the absence isn’t too extensive). If, on the other hand, you and your lover lack romance and trust in your relationship, you may want to focus on building a healthier relationship before it’s time for you to hit the road.

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Does Confidence Attracts Love?

How do you attract love? How do you attract someone to love you? What do you do so that somebody comes forward and says- I love you? This is a very important question, because many of us are hungry for love that we never get. Let me talk about confidence. Does having confidence attract love?

Let us talk about your self. Do you get attracted to anybody who shows no confidence? Do you madly love anybody who is unsure about everything? Do you fall in romantic love with a person whose very walk and talk shows a very timid person? I do not think many of us will do that. We may pity that person. We may advise that person. But we will never love that person. For loving a person, we have to find a person who commands respect from us. Confidence can do that trick. Let us discuss about confidence and love.

Love and confidence- if you are a confident looking person, you have to take care of over confidence. Do you look aggressive or act smart at all the times? If yes, that can drive people away from you. We all love and respect a confident person, but not somebody who declares that he/she knows all the answers and is infallible. If you lack in confidence, you have to develop it with systematic analysis of your fears and doubts. Why do you have low confidence? Find out the reasons. Are you lacking in abilities or are afraid of using them or you area pessimist? Please think about your confidence level and increase it.

We get attracted to a person who commands respect from us. Confident looking people command respect. Develop confidence to win in the game of love.

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Expressing Love Should Be Natural

I looked in her eyes and I knew that she was in love with me. Her eyes told me that. I had asked him to meet me at five pm, and he was there at three thirty. I knew what was happening. His movements and his heartbeat told me all. I could see the fast steps that became faster when she reached me. I knew then. I was talking to him and he recited some old love poems he had written. He never made it appear as if the poems were written for somebody else. I knew that he was now reading them for me. Love, how to express love? Does it need any training? Or any books to read? Do love expressions need any guidance about what to do and what to avoid? It is natural.

Love is a divine feeling. Love is not for ordinary people who suspect a motive everywhere. Love is not for moneymakers who want to look for an opportunity everywhere. Love is not for those who are looking for a body. Love is for those who are searching for a soul that will give them heavenly joy. Love is for those who want to talk in silence. Love is for dreamers. Love is for losers, because they lose themselves in love. Love is for one who forgets the world in love. Love is a supreme feeling.

Despite all I read about relationships, break-ups, marriages and divorces, when I look at a couple in honest love I see a divine sight. I forget all my worries for the moment. for I am watching what God created, but we polluted. I watch love, a very innocent love and I love that. Please fall in love and express it with your body and soul. Naturally. No books, no articles and no guides. Let your love flow, and your sweetheart will understand. That is love. Enjoy the bliss of love.

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True Love Is Endless Love. It Lasts Forever. You Too Can Find It

Some people are likely to be skeptical about this. They do not believe there is such thing as endless love. If you are one of them, you have your reasons.

I understand your skepticism. Divorce rate is so high today that many conclude that love relationship is simply a waste of time . . . another avoidable stress. You can't blame them.

Many relationships that start so well with love, excitement and enthusiasm crash so fast that you begin to wonder whether all the euphoria was worth it.

Divorce rate is high . . . yes. But I still believe that there is such thing as true love and that true love is endless. Why?

It's not because I'm a dogmatic believer. Far from it. It's because . . .

• I'm immersed in true love. I experience genuine love everyday.
• My parents have been in love and happily married for 39 years. No fighting, no squibbles. And their love gets stronger everyday.
• I know people who have been in love longer than even my parents . . . and are still in love.

Is endless love real?

Ye-e-e-e-e-e-ssssh!

The good news is . . . you too can find true love. You can find endless love . . . love that lasts forever.

But how?

That is the big question. ??Please discuss and give your views..

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Love and romance in the Bible: quotes, verses and scriptures

Here on Romance Tracker, we’ve pointed out that love themes are present in almost every form of art, history and literature that humanity has ever produced. But what about love and romance in the Bible, which many people consider the greatest book ever written? Is there wisdom about romance and relationships in the quotes and scriptures of the Old Testament and the New Testament?

The most obvious answer that many faithful Christians would present is that the entire reason Jesus Christ died on the cross was for a great and deep love for mankind, and that there is no better example of selfless love in all of human history than in the New Testament of the Bible. While this may not entail romantic love, we have learned that there are many different types of love and that they are no less powerful than romance, and this is one excellent example of love in the Bible.

But beyond the example of Jesus’s love for mankind and his sacrifice on the cross, there are plenty of examples of romantic love in bible, as well. So many, in fact, that it would be impossible to name them all in one short article! The power of romantic love between a man and woman, and God’s approval of faithful marriages and long-term commitments, are present throughout the bible.

I’m sure all of us can easily think of the earliest example: Adam and Eve! This was the world’s first romance, and while things didn’t initially turn out too well for them in the bible (they were banished from heaven on Earth in the form of the Garden of Eden), it is arguable that their romance set the stage for love as it would exist throughout the rest of human history. And after Adam and Eve, there are endless examples of love and romance throughout the rest of the Old Testament and the New Testament.

So, does romance and love exist in the scriptures of the bible? Of course, and the stories are easily found in its pages. Love and romance are an important ingredient of every story in human history, and are every bit as present in the greatest book ever written!

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When is the last time you kissed your lover on the cheek?

Before you roll your eyes at the title of this post, remember that frequent small, romantic ideas are far more important to building better relationships and marriages than infrequent, elaborate gestures like expensive gifts or vacations. And giving your significant other a simple, heartfelt kiss on the cheek is an extremely effective, easy way to show you love them many times a day.

While many people might think of a kiss on the cheek as something a parent or grandparent gives to a child, you shouldn’t be afraid to use a quick peck on the cheek to express your feelings to your lover when time or circumstances don’t allow for anything more. When we’re in a hurry, when we’re about to leave each other, or when we meet briefly and unexpectedly, a kiss on the cheek is the perfect way to say “I love you.”

And for those of you who are afraid of seeming to be too clingy in public, a simple kiss on the cheek is a tasteful, unsappy way to express your love in front of others. If you can get comfortable enough to add holding hands with your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend in public, you’ll be on your way to a much more romantic, fulfilling relationship!

The next time you feel the urge to give your significant other a kiss, don’t let anything stop you. If you do, you might be missing out on a chance to add a whole lot more old-fashioned romance to your relationship!

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Separation - Take Advantage of the Alone Time

Marital separation can be tough, as it is the limbo between commitment and divorce. If you want to stay together, you have to deal with the conflicting emotions of dread and hope. If you want to leave, you have to deal with the guilt of hurting the other person and the weight of this huge decision. No matter which way you look at it, you are going to be stressed. The important thing is to see the silver lining and take advantage of the time to yourself.

What should you do?

1) Join a gym- Being physically fit is something you can feel good about whether you are single, married, divorced or even separated. Aside from the positive results, you will enjoy the feeling of doing something for yourself. It can also be a great way to work off any pent up anger, aggression or anxiety. Getting your endorphins flowing will give you the energy to get through the day as well as make you feel great.

2) Enjoy yourself- Beyond the basics of taking care of yourself, you need to remember to have fun also. Go out to dinner with your friends or grab one of them to go see a movie. You could even take it further and go on vacation. The bottom line is to do something that you enjoy doing. Also, don't be afraid to laugh. Some people find that they feel guilty for enjoying themselves, but while this is understandable, it is unnecessary. Go ahead, laugh it up. If relaxing is more of your thing, curl up with a good book. Losing yourself in the world of the characters can be a great temporary escape from the real world.

3) Try to sleep- If you are newly separated, it can't be easy sleeping all alone. If you lie awake with your mind racing, however, you are going to make the situation worse for yourself and everyone around you. Sleep is a restorative process, and lack thereof can lead to increased anxiety and depression, and even physical pain.

There are many natural remedies you can try, as well as daily practices such as exercising in the morning and winding down before bed. If this doesn't work you may want to consult your health care provider about the possibility of sleeping pills. They aren't for everyone, but if taken right they can work wonders for your everyday life. The bottom line is you need rest, so you can think clearly.

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Do you need intimacy

Intimacy in love means a close relationship that is highly satisfying. To be intimate means that you reveal yourself totally to your partner, hide nothing and feel very comfortable and free. it is like talking to yourself. You become so close and are so sure of your relationship that you talk to your partner as if you are talking to yourself. This kind of relationship has great joy and gives a new meaning to relationships. Now a days relationships are getting confined to physical and emotional needs are not being met. Are you also looking for intimate relationship? Why not quiz yourself about that?

Quiz your needs? Do you feel comfortable in an intimate relationship? Do you feel absence of intimate relationship? When you look at pictures of happy and intimate couples, do you feel little envious? Do you wish that you also had an intimate relationship? Or you feel comfortable as you are and do not want any one to come within your personal space. Do you wish to share others pains and pleasures or want to keep away from details and in a boundary? These are the questions that only you can answer. Please quiz yourself about these needs. This quiz will tell you about your deep felt needs and tell you what will satisfy you. Also quiz yourself if what you are thinking will truly give you joy?

Quiz your behavior - Quiz yourself about your behavior. If you need an intimate relationship then ask- why it is not developing? Quiz yourself about your choice of partner. Quiz yourself about your relationship with him/her and find out if that is responsible for not developing intimacy. Quiz your partner’s mind about his/her opinion. Quiz yourself about how to develop intimacy. Begin with small steps and watch the results. If you are happy with the initial results, please go deeper in the relationship and enjoy life.

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Making your lover your number one priority

Nurturing a successful romantic relationship or marriage means finding time to spend with your significant other, but in today’s busy world it can be difficult to balance a hectic career and other obligations with your responsibilities as a romantic partner. Sure, you may think that you’re spending enough time with your lover and that they know that your romance is the most important thing in your life. But are you certain of that?

Reiterating to your sweetheart that your romantic relationship is your number one priority–even more important than your career or other obligations that might keep you away–could be one of the romantic ideas that you need to take to build a better romance. Many of us take for granted that our lover knows that they are our “number one,” but sharing a romantic partner with a busy career or hectic schedule can sometimes make a person feel second best.

You might make a point to romantically hug your lover as soon as you get home from work or to spend as much free time with them on the weekends, but simply telling them that they are the most important priority in your life is just as important.

How you tell them is up to you. Whether it’s with words, in a card or romantic note, or with a romantic text message, letting your lover know that they are the most important thing in your life will work wonders for your loving relationship.

Your career or other important duties may keep you away from your lover more than you would like, and your romantic partner probably knows that you have certain obligations that your have to fulfill in order to be a good parent, role model or spouse. But when is the last time you told your lover that they are much more important to you than anything else in the world?

It’s a simple thing to say, but you’ll be amazed at how much more fulfilling your romantic relationship will be if you tell your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband that they’re your number one priority. Let them know . . . today!

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When is the last time you kissed your lover on the cheek?

Before you roll your eyes at the title of this post, remember that frequent small, romantic ideas are far more important to building better relationships and marriages than infrequent, elaborate gestures like expensive gifts or vacations. And giving your significant other a simple, heartfelt kiss on the cheek is an extremely effective, easy way to show you love them many times a day.

While many people might think of a kiss on the cheek as something a parent or grandparent gives to a child, you shouldn’t be afraid to use a quick peck on the cheek to express your feelings to your lover when time or circumstances don’t allow for anything more. When we’re in a hurry, when we’re about to leave each other, or when we meet briefly and unexpectedly, a kiss on the cheek is the perfect way to say “I love you.”

And for those of you who are afraid of seeming to be too clingy in public, a simple kiss on the cheek is a tasteful, unsappy way to express your love in front of others. If you can get comfortable enough to add holding hands with your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend in public, you’ll be on your way to a much more romantic, fulfilling relationship!

The next time you feel the urge to give your significant other a kiss, don’t let anything stop you. If you do, you might be missing out on a chance to add a whole lot more old-fashioned romance to your relationship!

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Dating! After breakup

By the time we reach 30s and 40s, many of us break up. After waiting for some months, we think of entering the dating scene again. What kind of approach should we take? What needs to be thought about and how should one enter dating scene again? Often we have been in a marriage or other long-term relationship
for so long that the very way people date has changed.

It is not easy to find single people of our age as easily as we did when we were younger. The way out is try to explore all venues to meet suitable dates. The first step should be to meet someone who is of our age and is already dating. We can get useful tips from them about changes that have occurred.

Some of us will have opportunity to meet single people through our jobs or at church. Others will need to find new ways of meeting people. Participating in sports, hobbies, and volunteer work can help you to find people who share the same interests. Changing your activities every month or so will help you to keep meeting new people. To meet new people it is important to join new groups. Developing new hobbies and taking interest in wider area of activities helps meet new people.

Internet dating is another option. Look for a good website that has profiles of people meeting your requirements and begin contacting. Take the usual care on the Internet. There are some websites who cater to the older group. You can try those too. Good luck.

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Some notes about fatherhood

For most of us, our first father is God. A large majority of the world considers God as their father; or rather call God as their father. God is father to all in such believing families. What about biological fathers? How does one become a good father? What are the yardsticks by which we measure the goodness of a father?

This is a subject for discussion and application of thought. Who is the final judge about the goodness of the father? The mother? The children? The society? What qualities should a man possess to be called a good father? These questions generate a bigger debate.

Can a mother judge her husband about his goodness as a father? That judgment can depend on so many probabilities. What are her yardsticks? How was her father? What are her beliefs? Do these beliefs match those of her husband? How much does she love her husband and her children? If it comes to taking sides, whose side will she take? Will it be a well thought-out decision or one colored by many other factors?

Can the father judge his own goodness? What may be correct according to him, may be wrong according to her children? The man carries his psychological baggage and many times may be prejudging and expecting responses. Generation gap plays a bigger role. As the world progresses, priorities, tastes, values, everything undergoes change. Therefore a man himself cannot pronounce himself as a good father. Children will contest that, if he does not accept their beliefs. Which child will call his father a good father, if the father has set ideas about partying, relationships, studies, etc.

Can the children judge their father? That is difficult to believe. The children surely wish for a father who not only agrees with their ideas, but supports them in all possible ways in enjoying life. What if a child is such that he believes that enjoying life is more important than studying for examinations?

If we think more about this subject, it will result into more confusion. What is to be thought about fatherhood and how does one become a good father? The best way out might be to accept the generation gap, listen to children before giving orders, have a fair debate on all important issues, and tell children exactly about values that will decide the final action. After doing all this, one should simply do one’s duty and leave the rest to prayers. And before attempting to become a good father, one should first become a good man. A drug addict can never become a good father, nor a habitual liar.

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10 Best ways to hold hands of your sweet heart

If you’re one of the many people out there who think that holding hands is a simple, boring routine that adds nothing to a marriage or romantic relationship, think again! It’s time to stop worrying about public display of affection . . . and start learning how to hold hands!

Hand holding, if done correctly, can add a new dimension of intimacy and excitement to your romance . . . but only if you let it! There are tons of romantic ideas to transform regular hand holding into a passionate, playful experience that can add a much-needed spark to your relationship from the very first caress.

That’s right: there’s more than one way to hold hands with your wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend . . . and lovers can find a unique method specially suited to add romance to any situation. Use the list below to come up with your own romantic ideas for holding hands with your sweetheart, but don’t stop there! Combine techniques, experiment and come up with your own hand holding ideas specially suited to your unique romantic relationship.



Top Ten Hand Holding Techniques

1. The Passive Hand Hold

This is hand holding in its simplest form: your sweetheart’s hand gently but firmly cupped in yours. It’s most appropriate for public environments where you want to remain tasteful and avoid looking “clingy,” but is still a great, effective way to add physicality to your romantic relationship.

2. The Intertwined Fingers Hand Hold

A step up from the Passive Hand Hold, Intertwined Fingers provides a firmer grip and an increased sense of intimacy. This type of hand holding is perfect while taking a romantic walk together, but it can have a downside of sweaty palms!

3. The One-Finger Hand Hold

Holding just one of your lover’s fingers is a more romantically playful method for times when you’re feeling flirtatious. This is the easiest hand hold for your sweetheart to pull away from, but is still a great way to add some fun intimacy to the mix.

4. The Massaging Hand Hold

Turning a simple hand-holding session into a relaxing massage is a wonderful romantic surprise to give your sweetheart. There’s an art to romantic massage and an unlimited number of ways you can caress your lover’s hands and give attention to each finger. This hand-holding method is best used while sitting down!

5. The Two-Hand Hold

Here’s another technique that is tough to do while standing, but one of the best ways to add some serious physicality and intimacy to hand holding. Taking your sweetheart’s hand in both of yours will give them a deep sense of security, importance and calm.

6. The Palm Caress Hand Hold

This method is an intimate, secret way to tastefully caress your lover without being noticed by others around you. Starting with the Passive or Intertwined Fingers technique, use one of your fingers to gently rub your sweetheart’s palm in an up-and-down or swirling fashion.

7. The Kissing Hand Hold

The Kissing Hand Hold is perfect for intimate situations when you’re alone with your special someone, and is often combined with the Two-Hand Hold. Clean hands are perfect for kissing, and you should never be afraid to shower your lover’s fingertips, palms and wrists with romantic pecks!

8. The Gentle Pinching Hand Hold

This one isn’t right for every romantic relationship, and can be a little too playful and rough for some couples. But gently pinching your lover’s fingertips and palms, if done correctly, can be an exciting, fun experience for you and your sweetheart, as long as you make sure you don’t do it too hard.

9. The Warm-Up Hand Hold

When it’s cold outside, there’s no better way to warm up your fingers than by having them caressed and rubbed lovingly by your favorite person in the world. Don’t make your sweetheart use a heater when you have two perfectly good, warm hands to help them out! Combine this technique with the Massaging Hand Hold for a great effect.

10. The The Morse-Code Hand Hold

This is the most unorthodox and interactive hand-holding technique, but can be a heck of a lot of fun if you and your lover can master it. Agree ahead of time of a phrase that you want to share with each other silently–such as “I love you”–and assign it a number of squeezes that correspond with the syllables in the phrase. Your sweetheart will remember that when you squeeze three times it means “I-love-you” . . . and can respond with a four-squeeze “I-love-you-too”!

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Sense of humor plays an important role in relation

So, when life hands you problems, are you able to take them in stride and laugh off the inevitable, unavoidable hassles and annoyances that come your way? You see, some of the tricks to being successful in life are useful in encouraging romance in your marriage or relationship, too . . . and one of those important romantic ideas is having a sense of humor!

Learn to see the lighter side of things

In many instances,taking your relationship too seriously is more dangerous to your romance than not taking your relationship seriously enough. Developing a sense of humor about events that you can’t change is a great way to make your relationship more resilient, fend off a breakup or divorce, and make your husband, wife, girlfriend or boyfriend more comfortable with you.

So, does that mean you should laugh off every serious problem that life hands you? Of course not! But having a sense of humor does mean that you allow yourself to see the lighter side of situations that you can’t change . . . and let yourself laugh off your challenges every now and then!

Don’t let minor annoyances gain control of your life!

Illnesses and threats to your relationship or marriage are hardly humorous, and laughing in the face of serious problems such as these would be silly and probably make your sweetheart feel pretty rotten. But taking smaller problems and annoyances too seriously is giving outside influences more control over your happiness than they deserve. By developing a thicker skin and laughing at minor challenges, you rob them of their power to control your life . . . and you make your romance even stronger!

So the next time you feel like getting upset over something that really has no consequence, try laughing at the annoyance instead. You’ll be surprised at how much it improves your life, your romance . . . and you!

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Some special thoughts about love

“A guy and a girl can be just friends….But at one point or another one of them will fall for other maybe temporarily ,may be at the wrong time ,may be too late or may be….just may be forever….”

“Love is gift you can’t buy it ,you can’t find it ,someone has to give it to you,Learn to be receptive of that gift”

“Love grows by giving,the love we give away is the only love we keep,the only way to retain love is to give it away….”

“Sometimes you have to juts take chance in love and life ,you can’t live your life among the mounds of ‘what if”,you have to follow your heart and hope for the best….”

“Love is special feeling that brightens our days ,and the secret of its meaning is found in simple ways”

“Remember that you don’t choose love ,love chooses you ,all you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life”

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You My Love

You ask me what keeps me going,

In the face of everything,

What makes me smile

In the face of pain,

What way does sweetness enter me

And gush over in my words,

My answer is simple

To all these questions of yours -

“You”

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Love Wallpapers Collection Part-2

I have collected some more more good wallpapers, Hope you all will like it.

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How to save sexless marriage

If you’re wondering how to cope with a sexless marriage you may be looking in the wrong place. If you are living in a sexless marriage you shouldn’t be trying to cope with it, you should be looking for ways to cure it. Nearly one in five couple are living in a sexless relationship, this means that when you go to the store, bar or restaurant that if there are ten couples in any place the likelihood is that two of those couples have this problem.

Society puts a lot of pressure on couples; they not only need to work harder to afford the nicer things in life but they also need to earn more money due to inflation, increasing house prices, the credit crunch and the cost of raising children so it’s not surprising that we can’t function normally all of the time.

If you’ve tried to analyze this situation, chances are that you’ve got around to playing the blame game. Many people try to work out the problem without the right information, they feel that because it’s them that want sex and their partner who doesn’t then it must be the partners fault. Putting the blame on your spouse can be the end of your marriage, what if the real reason is down to you but the symptoms have come out in your partner?

Instead of wondering how to cope with a sexless marriage you should put your efforts into fixing it, coping with it means that you have given up.

In this day and age men and women both work to support a household, sometimes the woman can earn more than her husband which makes him feel inferior. Some women stay at home to look after the kids and end up feeling unappreciated which can cause them to feel depressed, these are just two potential causes for sexless marriages, there are hundreds more.

I am not going to list hundreds of causes of a sexless marriage because each marriage is different, each couple is different and unless you know exactly what caused this problem for you! It will take you a very long time to fix the marriage.

Don’t give up too easily; so many people with this problem seem to think that the easiest way to deal with this is just to get a divorce, what happens after that? If you love your spouse then you need to stay together and work through this problem.

By reading this far you’ve taken the first steps to fixing your sexless marriage, as I said earlier it’s not about how to cope with a sexless marriage, it’s about working together to repair the damage and strengthen your relationship.

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How to win your love back

Do you want to win your love back? Are you sad that your partner has broken up and do you want their love again? My advice is that unless you are very sad do not try that. If you think that life is becoming difficult without your partner then let us see what you can do.

Reflect upon the period preceding the breakup. Did you change towards your partner? Were you less attentive or less loving? Were you taking your love for granted? Think about all the mistakes you may have committed. If you find that you were not the reason, then better give up the idea. You can only do something about lost love, if you caused it. If you find that you were probably the reason then arrange a meeting and apologize for all your mistakes. Promise never to do same thing again. You may probably win your love back.

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Do you think that you understand your partner? Think again.

Do You Understand your partner? This looks a little different kind of question, isn’t it? Because all of us think that we understand our partner. Is that true for all of us?

What all do we need to know about a person to feel that we understand them? Let us list out. Food habits, clothing choice, hobbies, emotional response, values, ambitions, behavior, mental strength, IQ and others. How much do you know about behavior response of your partner? Let us not talk about everyday behavior but how do they behave during extraordinary circumstances. For example, if a burger enters the house at night, what will be your partner’s reaction? They will feel frightened? They will go and confront the burglar? They will try to catch the burglar or they will try to kill?

We can raise many such questions and try and think if we know the answer. Suppose your partner is dressed in their best clothes and is attending a party. Somebody spills a liquid on his or her clothes by mistake. How do you think they will react? Can you answer this? Think of different situations and answer them to know if you really understand your partner.

Knowing about likes and dislikes does not mean understanding. To understand means to know the values, the life goals and the priorities of a person. To understand means to know what incidences made what impacts on that person. To understand means - you will be able to predict the reaction of your partner at a crucial moment. Can you do that with surety?

In the beginning of our relationship , we all talk about good things of life. Our focus is more to please our partner. Our focus is to get more pleasure in their company. we never think about the underlying psychological behavior at that time. After the relationship develop little further, we find that many times we get baffled by what our partner does and vice-versa. Better understand leads to stronger relationship.

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Happy wife and life is Heaven

Naturally “how to make your wife happy” will have to do with your own emotional input, and a understanding of hers! Women are very delicate beings at the best of times, and like men, they are very different from on to another. The delicacy to their happiness would be like comparing an old stock standard 4 cylinder engine, to the high tech models of today, to keep them running smooth, requires maintenance and a good amount of learning.

Gone are the days of being able to keep your wife locked up at home to do all of the “wife duties” that we are led to believe they should be doing. You may be able to find 1 out of 100 that could be happy from these expectations, but its a fact that woman that are treated as equals with all responsibility based around your life, and marriages are happier than those that have general expectations, to be the no1 “clean up after me” its your duty. Marriage is about being a team, I am not saying that you are to be the one who does everything, but by not expecting that, and helping out where ever does make for a happier wife…

Woman who are emotionally involved tend to have a high concern on how there partner feels about everything that they are involved in, where us men tend to hold our emotions. A lot of marriages do fail because we don’t learn to communicate effectively, particularly with the negative happenings in our life, wife’s who feel like they are a part of you because you can talk with them about what goes on, good and bad, feel like they are have worth and are needed as part of your team…

Making love to your wife is far grater than than just having sex, you can make love all day long with your words and your actions. Everyone of us has little buttons that make us tick, touching a certain place on the body, my wife has a place on her back that I can touch and she cant wait for me to get home. Always be flirtatious in conversation, good eye contact with that smirky smile of yours that she seems to like, subtle gestures towards the way she makes you feel. It is all about building your friendship, being honest and keeping that spark alive.

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Top 10 best Romantic gifts

Love cannot be translated into materialistic pleasures,but for some,expensive and lavish gifts arethe best way to express their romantic feelings.

1.Vintage Timepeice:

A vintage timepeice will remind the love of your life how much they enjoy spending time with you.

2.A Romantic Film just for two:

Nothing sets the mood for love more than a good whole some romantic film .Snuggling ,cooing and cuddling together will surely bring out the fire within.

3.Words fo love:

If words are all you have then fret not they are enough .A simpe “I LOVE YOU”means the world to your partner and they will find way to make ou feel the same way.

4.Vintage wine and choclates:

Doesnt get more sophisticated than this! little pampering leads to lot of loving.

5.Drive in style:

A chauffer driven car,wind in your hair ,starts in your eyes,your hands in her ,could you ask for more?yes for the ride to last forever.

6.Up,up and away (hot air balloon):

For the sporty and adventurous couples ,a hot air balloon rid does the trick,Up in the clean blue sky with the world down below,the awesome twosome can feel the highest form of love.

7.Fragrant memories:

The sweet scent from her lover will send her to the seventh heaven.she will smell lovely forevermore.

8.Trip in steam engine:

The venice-simplon orient express flamboyance is the name of the game hereAtrip like this is bound to impress her.so much so,she will be yours for life.

9.If music be the food of love:

A luxurious ,romantic dinner will satisfyyour love every desire for taste and leave her begging for more.

10.Weekend break:

Take time out your busy lives,far from the madding crowd,your love will be all yours again and will love you all the more for this lovely gesture.

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Possessiveness can end your relation!

Possess means to own.Can we own our partner? ,Their time… Are they our slaves? If you ask anybody these questions, you will hear a definite no. But some of those who say no may be very possessive about their partner. The Relationship breaks down after sometime hurting both the partners very badly.

Why are some people so possessive? Is that a complex of some kind? Are they afraid that their partner may be snatched away by somebody else? Or do they want their partner to spend all the time with them and no body else? Suppose you come across some emails of your partner. Would you look at them? Would you then ask your partner about the mails? What if your partner is late on a day? Are you happy to see them back or you are angry about their coming late?

If your partner is speaking on phone in a low voice, does that make you feel suspicious? Do you suspect that they may be speaking with their past lover? If someone sends an invitation to your partner for some party, do you insist that they should not go alone? Those who are possessive will try to control every minute of their partner’s life. They never allow the partner to use anything gifted to them by anybody else. They do not want the partner to talk about the past. They rather hate that. They treat themselves as the superior of their partner and try and control every activity. In the end the partner refuses to take this any more and the relationship breaks-up.

To love somebody is a great feeling. But the result of love should be pleasure for both the partners. If one partner feels like an animal in cage, that is not true love.

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Is there any way to have a happy relation?

A relationship is very tricky. Tensions build up over time and one day both the partners cannot bear the stress of the relationship and give it up. After that they keep thinking about why that happened. Why not secure the relationship right from the beginning. Every relationship will have pluses and minuses. Our objective should be to build the pluses. The minuses will then become insignificant. What are the factors that may positively influence a relationship? Let us write them down.

Maintain awareness of feelings of each other.

If you are trying to be perfect, do not do that. That causes stresses. Accept that both of you are imperfect.

Talking about breakup up in heat of the moment is wrong. One should rather avoid talking about breaking up altogether. Avoid discussing about any break up your friends have. Do not focus on any negative. Focus on positives.

Be compassionate towards each other. Take care of the mood swings and do not create tension over small things. Try to ease the atmosphere. Show care towards other person.

Lying about anything should be absolute no. Do not even try to hide things. Be totally open about everything. Never develop any trust deficit.

If something was better for you in the past and is not so in the present, avoid saying so.

Always end the day on a happy note. Do not let any misunderstanding open at the end of the day. Clear up all the mess and apologize if needed.

Know all about your partner’s likes and dislikes. If there is a conflict between what you like and what your partner likes, discuss that openly. Surrender if required. Ego in small matters never helped any one. You will feel better if you give happiness to your partner.

Go by your good instinct. Avoid thinking and dwelling upon negatives. Think of the world as a good place and your relationship as a great one.

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5 tips to improve your marriage with love making

There are marriages today that are in trouble. Living with another can sometimes be hard, and facing the problem is usually the best solution.

Lack of communication is the #1 blind spot for most. What most people do not realize is that love making can improve your marriage and bring couples closer together.

1.)To improve your marriage with love making is knowing what love making really means.This is something that is so natural in a beautiful relationship that a man and a woman share.

This means that trust,dedication to one another, and also being comfortable with each other comes alive while making love.Being able to share things that you normally would not share with any other.

2.) Giving all you can give while love making will make your marriage explode with affection.While love making, make sure your partner is satisfied, do not just think of yourself.

3.) Attraction and being aware of the great qualities that your partner has will stimulate you and bring you closer.Those qualities that brought you together in the first place will never leave your minds.

4.) Lovemaking is also showing your partner how much you care, in unlimited ways. A gentle massage or neck rub is not out of the question when love making.To improve your marriage, kind words also go far in love making. Being kind has never made enemies.

5.) Sexual energy is one of the most powerful feeling in life, so use it to its full extent. Do not let your sexual energy get your partner bored, try new things to arouse your partner. Nothing is worse than going to bed with your spouse and hating every moment.

How often have you wondered if you could save your marriage or relationship and finally be happy. Do you think that your love making needs to improve.

If your relationship problems are focused on physical or emotional abuse, then this is the type of troubled marriage that should be ended.

But, if your marriage problems are bad, yet abuse is not present, then 100%, your marriage can be saved - and made better!

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Sometimes it happens with all of us

Are you struggling with obsessive thoughts, depression, pain, and lack of intimacy with your spouse? Maybe you’re thinking, “Gosh, it’s been over a year, or two or three, and I’m still not totally healed. What’s wrong with me?” This happened to me and I couldn’t figure out why my marriage wasn’t what I wanted it to be and I still wasn’t truly happy inside. I felt like we were roommates that really didn’t like each other very much. I wanted us to have this wonderful intimate relationship but how come it wasn’t happening?

I have since learned that if I don’t change the way I think I may never heal and have that loving relationship with my husband. Because of this I have learned that the passing of time does very little to help in recovering. I always heard that time heals all wounds, well that is false. Yes, it helps but if you truly want to heal and have that happy healthy relationship you have always wanted then time alone will not make this happen. In fact, it can make it worse if all your doing is obsessively thinking about all the pain your in and why your in it. You need to really work on what is going through your mind. Are they mostly negative thoughts about yourself, your marriage, and your spouse? Your going to have to put in the effort and try to understand and gain perspective on the situation rather than just going over and over all the negativity around the situation.

Of course, this is easier said than done, but how badly do you want to heal and be happy again? Are you willing to do the hard work it takes to get to where you want to be? Now I know that in the first year after finding out doing this was pretty much impossible for me to master. In fact, it took me over 2 years to finally understand and gain the perspective I needed too in order to starting making myself think positively again. Remember, they do say that is takes 2-5 years to heal from the effects of infidelity. You can’t rush it and expect to be healed and happy by the end of the first year. These things take time and effort and MANY baby steps.

The painful thoughts are going to come, you can’t stop them and they’ll sometimes seem to come out of nowhere. But what you do after they come is what’s going to make all the difference. I have found that if you let yourself dwell on these thoughts the pain will either stay the same but most often than not they get worse. I find myself starting to have bitter thoughts towards my spouse. This makes me start withdrawing from or behaving badly towards him which in no way helps the healing and recovery process. So, you have to really try and stop yourself from dwelling on these thoughts. It doesn’t mean you can’t have them or acknowledge that they are there, but really force yourself to turn your thoughts back to something positive. In time, after much practice this will become habit and what a wonderful habit this will be to have. You’ll find yourself a much happier person one that anyone would love to be around. I promise you, this will do wonders for your marriage.

So feeding these painful thoughts will make them grow into huge ugly weeds and weeds can kill, so these thoughts left untamed can kill a marriage. But if you refuse to feed and nurture these painful thoughts then the weeds won’t be able to grow and instead it will let your marriage grow into something beautiful.

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Boundaries in Love

A boundary is different from an agreement. You don’t need the other person to agree to your boundaries. They don’t even have to know what your boundaries are, unless they are crossed. Your boundary is something, that you know, if that line is crossed, you will address the matter immediately so that it is remedied, and if it is not resolved to your satisfaction, you will act by removing yourself from the situation so that you are not subjected to it again.

An example:

Say there is a woman named Marjorie, who has often been lied to in past relationships. They were big lies. It gives her great pain, remembering this. She knows that lies are not something she can tolerate in relationships. She hates the feeling of distrust, and the betrayal that lies cause in the relationship.

She enters a new relationship. They are in love. One day though, he says a small lie because he’s afraid that if he tells the truth it will hurt her. This is common — the well-intentioned lie. But she finds out and she is very hurt and upset, and she doubts now that she can trust other things he says, and she doesn’t like that feeling. This is not what she wants in a relationship. She wants absolute mutual trust.

But fortunately, she decided ahead of time what she would do if someone lied to her again. She decided that if she was told any big lie, such as her partner was covering up an affair, or drinking and hiding it, or being dishonest with money… that she would end the relationship immediately, with no negotiation. That is her signal to leave now, before it gets worse.

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101 Love Ideas

1. Remember to say “I love you” and “I need you” often.

2. Walk hand in hand in the rain.

3. Write a love poem.

4. Call a radio station and dedicate a favorite song.

5. Write “I Love You” in lipstick or shaving cream on the mirror.

6. Hide love notes in a lunch box, briefcase or purse.

7. Make heart-shaped cinnamon toast for breakfast.

8. Place a love note in the personals section of the newspaper.

9. Take a carriage ride around the city.

10. Plan a surprise getaway.

11. Do your mate’s household chores.

12. Write notes on future dates in their date book (”I love you,” I miss you,” etc.)

13. Make reservations at a favorite restaurant.

14. Let them choose the movie.

15. Give a foot massage.

16. Make a heart-shaped bookmark, and place it in their book.

17. Pop in a romantic music CD and slow dance.

18. Throw a just-because surprise party for two.

19. Buy a stuffed animal for your honey.

20. Read each other’s horoscopes.

21. Make a list of the top 10 things you love about your partner.

22. Display it in a prominent place.

23. Tattoo your mate’s name on your body.

24. Make an album or scrapbook of your favorite memories together.

25. Go camping together and only take one sleeping bag.

26. Send a mushy message in a bottle…a balloon…a sandwich…

27. Cut out a silly cartoon that you know they’d enjoy.

28. Shower together.

29. Dim the lights, and snuggle together on the couch.

30. Be the first to say “I’m sorry” and kiss and make up.

31. Give each other a full-body massage.

32. Kiss every hour on the hour all day long.

33. Send a gift basket of indulgent items.

34. Write “I’m hot for you” in the steam on the bathroom mirror.

35. Ribbon wrap your bed with a big bow.

36. Fill up the gas tank of your partner’s car.

37. Act like teenagers. Maybe even pierce something!

38. Show up with a bouquet of flowers — for no reason at all.

39. Play Scrabble® together, using as many “love” words as you can.

40. Run a warm bubble bath for your partner, with lots of lit candles.

41. Meet in the park for a picnic.

42. Hold hands.

43. Leave a trail of rose petals through the house, leading to a romantic candlelight dinner.

44. Make a donation in your mate’s name to a special cause or charity.

45. Pick up their clothes from the floor — without saying a word about it.

46. Watch an old black and white romantic movie and share a bowl of popcorn.

47. Reenact your first date.

48. Surprise your partner with tickets to a special event.

49. An unexpected hug can brighten any day.

50. Buy a silly, impromptu gift.

51. Send an email just to say “I’m thinking of you.”

52. Bring home a balloon bouquet.

53. Serve breakfast in bed.

54. Make an ornament with a picture of both of you for the Christmas tree.

55. Play tag.

56. Wash and wax your partner’s car, and leave a little note on the dashboard.

57. Plant a garden together.

58. Leave a mushy message on voicemail.

59. Stay at a hotel for the night, just because.

60. Make angels in the snow.

61. Every time you say “hello” or “goodbye”, seal it with a hug and a kiss.

62. Take a drive in the country.

63. Spend the evening looking at the stars — and make a wish together.

64. Cast a playful wink any time, anywhere.

65. Think up a list of silly little pet names for times when you’re alone together.

66. Read poetry to each other.

67. Celebrate your half-birthdays together.

68. Put a picture of both of you in your wallet.

69. Buy that favorite book or CD for no reason at all.

70. Send a care package to work filled with treats like food, photos, candy, a love note, heart-shaped confetti, etc.

71. Go out for the evening and tell people you’re on your honeymoon.

72. Take a hike together and carve your initials in a tree.

73. Write a thank you note for all the things you take for granted.

74. Make a fire in the fireplace and roast marshmallows.

75. Tape your favorite TV show and spend the evening talking.

76. Do the dishes together, then apply hand lotion to each other’s hands.

77. Write a love letter to your partner and cut it into jigsaw puzzle pieces.

78. Decide on secret signals and use them to communicate with each other in large groups of people.

79. Schedule a regular mid-week “date night” for just the two of you.

80. Do the laundry together.

81. Romance Theater Weekend: reenact each other’s favorite love scene - hers on Friday, his on Saturday.

82. Call your partner at work and ask for a date.

83. Pretend you haven’t seen each other for a month. Act accordingly.

84. Send a written invitation to do something special.

85. Take turns reading to each other.

86. Stand outside the window and sing a romantic song.

87. Hide favorite candy in your partner’s coat pockets.

88. Put a tape recording of your voice (saying anything) in the car stereo and turn it on so it plays when the car starts.

89. Go to a drive-in movie.

90. Get up to turn off the last light after you’re both comfy-cozy in bed.

91. Hold each other tight during a thunderstorm.

92. Make a tape recording of favorite love songs.

93. Leave a bunch of bananas on the kitchen table with a note, “I go bananas over you!”

94. Hide love notes in a magazine.

95. Declare your undying love via a telegram.

96. Make a romantic dinner together, and serve it on your finest china.

97. Surprise your partner with a big kiss on the neck.

98. Give unexpected compliments.

99. Share an ice cream cone.

100. Have a picnic on the living room floor.

101. Draw a silly picture of the two of you. Frame it.

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