Are You In Love?

So you think that you are in love. Are you sure? How? Why do you think that you are in love? Why do you think that it is not temporary attraction? Why do you think that you both are destined to grow old together? Let us try and find out.

Do you feel happy with your beloved? Do you feel that if you both were left alone on an island for seven days, you would enjoy it? Or you will get bored? How about your self esteem? Does your beloved make you feel good about yourself? Is his/her focus on your good qualities or sometimes faults? What about you? Are you looking for some signs of weaknesses in certain areas, or are contented and satisfied with the whole package?

Love is different than any other relationship and has its own measures. It goes beyond friendship and one has to ask questions to find out if it is love and nothing else. Coming back to our inquiry, what if your beloved gets you some clothes? Will you be delighted and wear immediately, or will you try to look at it critically to find out how you will look in that particular piece of clothing?

Do you smile at the thought of your beloved? Get dreamy? Want to share everything good? Say, you see something good, or complete a some work very satisfactorily, will you immediately tell your beloved about that? Will you impatiently wait to share that? Do you ever compare him/her with others? Give a second look to someone of opposite sex? No? What if the person is stunning in looks? Would you still rather never think of giving a second look and continue with the thoughts of your beloved? What if you go to a movie together? Will you try to look at each other in the darkness or rather watch the movie? Do you watch the movie at all while you are together? Are you planning of the future together? Having children, a new home, new life, etc? Do you talk about how you both would like to spend your old age together? Have you also thought about the career options after marriage? If your answers to all above queries is in positive, you need to look at the relationship seriously. Because you are in love! Love is difficult to find out. Many times, we feel that we are in love, only to find out afterwards that it was not love. It is better to make sure that it is love before committing. Wishing you all the best.

We are given a short life. We must enjoy every moment. If you believe that you are in true love, please do not delay further. Proceed with marriage immediately.

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The Magic Of Love

Love, the very word brings forth feelings of warmth. Love, a relationship, which makes us whole. A companion with whom we share all our emotions, our life, our thoughts, our body, our everything. That is love and lucky are those who fall in love.

During the initial phase of love, there is a tremendous passion and a desire to keep on sharing everything. Keep on telling about how one loves their beloved in so many different ways. In this phase, lovers speak of flowers, stars, moon, and so many other objects that one can find to define love.

All of us have our own style of sending love messages. Some write their own poems. Some send small notes. Some send very long letters and some search for poems that can reflect their emotions. Searching for gifts, and sending messages, meeting, enjoying life together, and so many other such activities mark the initial phase of love. Love is indeed mysterious because you will find poems being written by those about whom you had never suspected this. Your most ordinary looking practical gardener will develop dreamy eyes and start sending love notes after falling in love! PG Wodehouse wrote about this in most of his stories with great fun and understanding.

The best part of love messages arrives after many years. Show a lover what he/she did many years ago and they will themselves not believe that they wrote all that gibberish. That is love.

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Tough love: how being strong in a relationship can be romantic

Everyone has heard of “tough love,” or a relationship in which one partner has to make difficult decisions for the good of the other partner. Tough love is more often associated with platonic love or parenting, but romantic relationships can also occasionally benefit from practicing a little tough love.

Tough love in a romantic relationship doesn’t necessarily mean being forceful with your significant other, although it could include that if your lover is practicing self-destructive acts that are a threat to themselves or your relationship. Instead, tough love usually involves being strong enough to make your romantic relationship the number one priority in your life and defend it against outside threats that could harm it.

Make no mistake about it: having the strength to face threats to your romance is an important aspect of building a romantic relationship, and tough love is sometimes a necessity. While things between you and your lover may be just peachy, outside threats, such as your career, family members or other stresses, could combine to sabotage an otherwise successful relationship. In these situations, tough love is in order to defend your relationship.

But don’t confuse tough love with being rude, unreasonable or pushy in your relationship! Tough love can be practiced in a measured fashion, and just because you perceive a threat to your relationship doesn’t mean that you should get overly protective or issue threats in return. Simply remaining strong, supporting your sweetheart, and letting others know in no uncertain terms that your relationship is your number one priority is usually all the tough love that is required.

And as for practicing tough love when it comes to protecting your romantic partner from threats to themselves and your relationship, remember to approach the situation with plenty of objectivity and understanding. Rather than being judgmental and condescending, use a more gentle form of tough love by starting a conversation with your lover about the mistakes you think they are making. Calmly tell them why you think these things are threatening, how you want to help them, and ask for their thoughts and ideas as well. You don’t have to be controlling or pushy to practice tough love with your partner.

Remember, just because you’ve decided to start using tough love to improve your relationship doesn’t necessarily mean you have to get tough. Simply be strong, practice understanding, and make your romance your number one priority, and you’ll be using all the tough love you need to!

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Bring romance to your relationship by unplugging your dishwasher

Yup, you read that headline right: unplugging that automatic dishwasher isn’t just a way to save on your electric bill, but it’s also one of many great romantic ideas that can add some good old-fashioned romance to your relationship. But how?

There’s no big secret to making your loving relationship or marriage more romantic. Romance is all about spending time with your lover, sharing new experiences together and making them the most important part of your life. And sometimes doing the simplest things together helps us become more comfortable and romantic with each other; things like preparing a meal together, going for a walk together . . . or even washing the dishes together.

Even if you’re by yourself, washing your dishes by hand can be a calming, relaxing and meditative experience. Don’t laugh! The warm water, the gentle scrubbing, and the attention needed to be paid to each fork and glass can combine to help you get your mind off of your troubles and release tension.

Similarly, washing the dishes with your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband is a super way to relax, spend time with each other, and work together. Washing, rinsing, and drying each dish together, and incorporating some romantic touching and communicating while you’re doing it, can be a bonding experience that will add a new dimension to your relationship. And it’s a great followup to sharing a romantic meal together!

Even if it’s just once a week, washing the dishes by hand with your lover is one simple thing you can do to add more old-fashioned romance to your relationship. So unplug that dishwasher, get the water running, and cozy up for some squeaky clean romance!

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What speed dial number do you use for your sweetheart?

What speed dial number do you use for your sweetheart?

Here’s a quick question for Romance Tracker readers: do you have the phone number of your boyfriend, girlfriend, wife or husband programmed into your cell phone’s speed dial? If so, what number are they programmed under? Did you pick that number because it was the next one available, or does your lover’s speed dial number have some special significance?

Before you laugh, there are plenty of romantic ideas for why you might want to assign a specific speed dial number for your sweetheart! Pressing number one on my cell phone dials my significant other, because she’s most important thing in mylife and the number I call the most. But I know other people who put their special someone on number eight because of its resemblance to the “infinity” sign . . . signifying a love that will last forever.

In one of my favorite episodes of “Seinfeld,” Jerry began to resent his girlfriend because she refused to give him the “number one” spot on her speed dial. What do you think? Is number one the best spot to have on your lover’s cell phone, or is it more important to get a number that has some meaning to both of you?

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How to say “I’m sorry” and save your relationship

The importance of apologizing in a romantic relationship or marriage is well known, but it’s amazing how many boyfriends, girlfriends, wives and husbands have a hard time saying “I’m sorry” . . . even if they know it could stave off a breakup or divorce.

It’s a fact that saying you’re sorry (when it’s necessary) is one of the best romantic ideas you could use to improve your relationship, but even in the face of this fact too many couples find it difficult to say those three important little words.

Do you know when to say “I’m sorry?”

It’s a simple question, but an important one: when exactly should we offer an apology to our sweetheart? Not knowing when an apology is necessary or appropriate is a major underlying problem for many people who don’t say they’re sorry. Oftentimes a lover fails to apologize not because they are trying to be rude or mean, but because they just aren’t used to saying it.

If you have been told you don’t apologize enough, you may need to ask yourself whether you need to make an extra effort to pay more attention to the feelings of those around you. While you may not be purposely rude or uncaring, not showing any concern for your sweetheart’s feelings is a quick ticket to a relationship void of romance.

Start with litle “I’m sorry’s” and work up to big ones

If you need to work on your “I’m sorry” skills, start small and work your way up. If you’re a proud or stubborn person (and a lot of us are!), then practicing apologizing for little mistakes is a great way to build up your nerve to say your sorry after a serious argument.

And by starting to say “I’m sory” to your sweetheart even for little mistakes, you’ll show your lover that you really are committed to changing and paying better attention to their feelings!

Saying “I’m sorry” even if you don’t mean it

Does everyone who says “I’m sorry” really mean it every time? Of course not! But one of the secrets to building a successful romance is putting the feelings of your sweetheart, and the health of your relationship, before your own pride and anger.

Saying “I’m sorry” is often all that’s necessary to defuse an argument and set the path to reconciliation. And yes, sometimes it takes a strong person to make a relationship the number one priority and be the first to apologize . . . even when they don’t mean it.

Are you prepared to be that strong person who swallows pride and puts the relationship first? Saying you’re sorry can be a very difficult thing to do, but the rewards that could come your way make it worth the effort.

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Do You Have Anyone Who Cares For You?

Are you a fortunate person to have someone in your life who cares for you? I do not mean care in the sense it is commonly used. But who cares for you like your mother used to, when you were a child? You are a grown-up person now. Does that imply that you do not need anyone to take your care? Do not you need someone to ask you if you are ok? And then to try and make you comfortable? Do not you need someone who knows what you like and then to arrange for it? Do not you need someone who will put balm on your aching legs? Who will smother you with love, when you feel lonely?

Do not you want someone to just come and sit beside you and talk to you in silence? Do not you need someone who will make you cry, because you want to, but can not because you are an adult? Do not you feel that you need someone in front of whom you can cry your heart out? And be sure that someone will wipe your tears? Or because you are adult, such things are not done? Even if one feels extreme pain of any kind, one can cry either in church or all alone in a park? We are adults. But there is a child in all of us. We are fighters, but sometimes we lose the battles. We can bear every pain, but sometimes the pain can overcome our capacity. We all need a person in our life, who can be our mother, even if we are eighty years old. Who can understand that we need care. We wish to be pampered. We want someone to take our face in lap and comfort us. Yes, we can deny all this, but we need someone who cares for us.

All of us need a person who takes our care. If we are allowed to cry, if we are made to speak about all our troubles, if we are pampered to relax us, we will feel heavenly. But unfortunately we are all adults. These essentials of living are for kids. For adults, it is a corner in their homes or in the office, where they can sit and worry and show to the world that they are adults.

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Why romantic emails are a great way to say “I love you”

One recurring theme here on Romance Tracker is using modern technology to add old-fashioned romance to your relationship. In spite of all that the modern world has done to make human relationships more impersonal, there are still many great romantic ideas for using technology to add more spontaneity, fun and excitement to yours.

True romance is really about taking things slowly and paying close attention to even the small details, and the Internet and email are about doing things as quickly and simply as possible . . . but used correctly, they can help nurture and build your relationship. After all, you’ve used the internet to find this post about making your relationship or marriage more romantic, haven’t you?

Much like sending romantic text messages, a spontaneous romantic email is a simple and effective way to tell your wife, girlfriend, husband or boyfriend you are thinking about them at any time of the day. Many of us have gotten sick and tired of seeing our inboxes full of forwarded emails and unoriginal jokes, but an original, romantic email isn’t spam at all. And it doesn’t take much time or effort; something as simple as “I’m busy with work right now, but I’m missing you!” can make your sweetheart smile for the rest of the day!

If you want to get a bit more romantic, why not do some research and send your significant other a single line from a romantic poem every day? Or maybe a beautiful, romantic image you’ve found on the web with a note telling your lover how it reminded you of them?

E-cards are another great way to send lighthearted or serious romantic messages to your sweetheart over the Internet. There are plenty of on-line companies that let you send an ecard for free (just Google “e-cards”), and you can usually personalize them with your own special message. E-cards are a quick, fun way for your to tell your lover you’re thinking about them, and they’re guaranteed to put anyone who gets one into a great mood!

So what are you waiting for? You’re on the Internet right now, so nothing’s stopping you from sending your lover a quick romantic email. Promise yourself to use the Internet to tell that special someone you’re thinking about them at least once a week, and I guarantee your relationship will be better for it!

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Love letter: how to write a great romantic letter

As a professional writer and a relationship advice dude, the topic of writing a romantic love letter is an exciting one for me. While I believe that showing someone your love them is more important than what you say or write, a love letter can occasionally be the perfect compliment to a romantic relationship. There are few better ways to show someone show someone how much you appreciate them than by writing them a heartfelt romantic love letter.

When it comes to romantic love letters, creating a good one is much like any other romantic gesture: it’s a heck of a lot easier than you think it will be. We’ve spoken about writing romantic love poems before on Romance Tracker, and love letters are very similar. Regardless of what your writing skills are, I guarantee you can write a great love letter that your sweetheart will remember forever.

The first mistake that a lot of people make when considering to write a romantic love letter is the form it takes. Not all love letters have to be scrawled out in cursive on a sheet of paper, although that’s fine if you want to do it. With today’s technology, there are plenty of other options available to you for writing a romantic love letter.

If it makes you more comfortable, there’s nothing wrong with using email to write your love letter. As contemporary generations become more and more comfortable with electronic mail, sending a romantic email love letter is nothing to be embarrassed about. In fact, many romantic partners might prefer an email love letter over the paper version.

Two other modern technology options you have for sending romantic love letters are instant messaging and text messaging (or SMS). Just because romantic writers of bygone days didn’t have these options available to them doesn’t mean that you can’t take advantage of them to send your sweetheart a love letter.

And remember, a romantic love letter doesn’t necessarily have to take the form of a sappy, poetic message. A short, simple romantic thank-you note or romantic greeting card can also be considered love letters, and are just as effective in showing your sweetheart how much you appreciate them.

As you can see, there are endless options when it comes to how you can put together a romantic love letter for your special someone. If writing out a long, romantic love letter and leaving it on your lover’s pillow is your style, then that’s great. But never forget that a love letter is something that anyone can write, and it can take many different forms . . . short, long, or electronic.

So what are you waiting for? You don’t have any excuse not to write a romantic love letter for your husband, wife boyfriend or girlfriend today. And I guarantee that no matter what you write, if it comes from the heart your love letter will be cherished by your sweetheart forever!

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Love note: how to write the perfect romantic note

Writing a romantic love note for your sweetheart is a great way to add some simple, sweet, spontaneous romance to your relationship. We recently discussed how to write a romantic love letter, which requires a little more time and effort. But a love note only takes seconds to write, can be done any time, and is the perfect way to show your lover you are thinking of them.

Just like love letters, a romantic love note can take many, many forms. The classic version of the love note is to just scribble an encouraging or romantic sentence on a scrap of paper and leave it for your sweetheart to find. It could be a little love note you leave in their lunch, a love note on their pillow at night, or a love note in any location where your sweetheart might stumble upon it and smile!

With today’s technology, there’s no reason why your romantic love note should be limited to paper and ink. There are plenty of ways to use modern technology to send a quick, romantic love note, such as email, text messaging, or even instant messages. Why limit yourself to old-fashioned methods when there are so many different options for sending your love note?

As for what you write in your love note, the options are endless. Your love note could be deeply romantic, if you want it to be, but it doesn’t have to be. Even something as simple and fun as “have a great day, I’m thinking of you!” can do wonders for brightening someone’s day and improving your relationship! And have you considered writing a quick love note on a greeting card and popping it in the mail? That’s another way to surprise your lover and show them how much they mean to you!

If you haven’t written a love note for your sweetheart recently, then now is the time to do it. Romantic love notes cost nothing, are quick and easy to write, and are a great small thing to do to add some extra romance to your relationship. Go grab a pen!

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Is hugging that special someone your first priority when you come home?

Is hugging that special someone your first priority when you come home?

The world is getting busier and faster-paced every day, and adding old-fashioned romantic ideas to your relationship or marriage can be difficult if you have a hectic career or other responsibilities to worry about. On the one hand, part of being an old-fashioned romantic involves working hard to provide for and take care of your family.

But you need to balance that responsibility with paying enough attention to your lover to let them know how important they are to you. Your sweetheart may understand that work or other responsibilities keep you away from home longer than you would like, but do you make sure that they know how much you missed them when you were gone?

Whether it was a week-long business trip or a day at work, you should make sure that giving your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend a big kiss and hug is the first thing you do when you get home. Don’t let the distractions that took you away from the most important thing in your life continue when you return home again.

It’s never a bad idea to bring home a romantic surprise for your lover at the end of a work day or trip. Just keep in mind that the greatest gift you could give your special someone is the simplest and most inexpensive one: a hug!

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Science of love: times when romance and science mix

Science of love: times when romance and science mix

For many of us, romance and love are mysterious and magical experiences that defy all explanations and attempts to quantify them. To think that there is such a thing as a science of love could exist, or that science could be used to make predictions and assumptions about love and romance, is sacrilege to many romantic people. In spite of the fact that much of the mechanics of love and romance are unknown and mysterious to us, however, there is still a science of love that can help all of us when we are looking for or involved in a romantic relationship.

No, there really isn’t such a thing as a literal love doctor in a white lab coat who can give you a love potion or instantly determine the name of your perfect romantic partner. But the science of love can help us determine what works and what doesn’t work in relationships, the physiological differences between men and women when it comes to romance, as well as psychological aspects of human beings that make us love one another.

The science of love includes things as powerful and unexplored as chemical phermones and their effects on our libido and romantic tastes, and other subjects which are perfect for researching in a laboratory. But perhaps more important than physiological aspects of the science of love are the psychological aspects of the science of love. The human mind is still a vast unexplored country when it comes to our thoughts and desires, and psychology plays a much larger role in romance and love than many of us realize.

As the science of love advances and scientists and psychologists make more discovers about why we do the things we do, our relationship and romantic problems will gradually become easier to solve. Still, even with the advancement of the science of love, there will never be a “magic pill,” so to speak, that will instantly make all of our relationship problems go away. No matter how technologically advanced our society becomes or how amazing our inventions are, it will still be up to the individuals in a relationship to work through their romance problems themselves, rather than relying on machines and technology.

So, does the science of love really have any kind of bearing on your relationship? Well, it certainly could, if you decide to study the psychological and physiological advancements that could be effectively applied to your romantic relationship. But rather than relying on the science of love to tell you about romance and solve your relationship problems, it’s better if you approach romance the old-fashioned way: by discovering and growing together!

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Love horoscope: the signs and astrology of romance

Love horoscope: the signs and astrology of romance

There seem to be endless claims out there of free love horoscopes that can tell you what to expect when it comes to romance based on your astrological sign, but should you really base your romantic future on a love horoscope in a newspaper or online? Here at Romance Tracker, we believe that love horoscopes are a poor way to prepare for romance in your life, and that the only horoscope that you should rely on is your eternal sense of how to find true romance.

Love horoscopes claim that you can determine your romantic future and perfect romantic partner based on your astrological sign. While we think that love horoscopes can be fun and aren’t harmful to read and dream about, you should be very careful when using a love horoscope to decide what romantic actions to take in your life. No one knows your romantic needs and desires better than yourself, and a love horoscope could just as easily guide you into the wrong romantic place as the right one.

Are love horoscopes fun to read? Well, sure. They help us to use our romantic imagination, envision our romantic goals, and even laugh a bit at fun romantic predictions. But if your inner feelings tell you that there’s something wrong with the predictions in a love horoscope, you should follow your heart rather than words written by a person who has never met you and knows nothing about your romantic needs and dreams.

It is true that there are different types of people in the world whose preferences and talents can be grouped into predefined sets, and many horoscopes tend to ring true because we all share common desires and needs. But a love horoscope, no matter how enticing or seemingly optimistic, needs to be taken with a grain of salt. Remember: you have more to do with determining your romantic future than the planets and the stars. Take control of your own future and don’t let a newspaper or website set you on a path that makes you feel uncomfortable.

The next time you read a love horoscope, let yourself have fun with it and let your romantic imagination soar. But don’t take every word of a love horoscope as gospel, or you may end up making a mistake that could cost you a future full of love and romance.

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A romantic extramarital love affair? There’s no such thing

In a society that where divorce and cheating partners are becoming more and more common, the idea of a romantic extramarital love affair has been somewhat glamorized by our culture and media. Some husbands, wives, boyfriends or girlfriends who are dissatisfied with their partners may begin to feel that an romantic love affair is somehow needed or justified. But make no mistake about it: there is nothing romantic, necessary or healthy about any kind of affair, and rarely is there any kind of “love” involved in cheating on your significant other.

The myth of a “romantic” extramarital affair has been created by many years of books, movies and other forms of media that make people think the solution to their relationship problems lies in cheating on their spouse or partner . . . but there is no real romance involved in an affair. A truly romantic person doesn’t cheat on their spouse or sweetheart just because they’ve become bored with their love life or they have hit a rocky spot in their relationship. Cheating is wrong, pure and simple, and an extramarital love affair is not appropriate or admirable under any circumstances.

A true old-fashioned romantic person, if they are facing insurmountable relationship problems or if they have fallen in love with another person, will end their relationship before persuing another one. Lying to your significant other and starting an affair behind their back is cowardly, sneaky, unromantic and indefensible. It is better to tell your sweetheart that you wish to end things and do it the honorable way before rushing into another person’s arms and having an affair.

Regardless of how much you think you love this new person in your life or how romantic your feelings for them are, there is nothing at all romantic about an extramarital affair. Whether you are married or just dating, by being part of a romantic relationship you have given your word to your sweetheart to always be faithful to them as long as your relationship remains in tact. By breaking that oath—spoken or unspoken—you have plenty to be ashamed of. It doesn’t matter how bad things are at home . . . you owe it to yourself and your partner to end your relationship before cheating or persuing a love affair.

And remember: there are different types of cheating and affairs, too. There is physical cheating and physical love affairs, and there is emotional cheating and emotional love affairs. A physical affair involves exactly what you think it does, but an emotional affair is much more common . . . yet much less talked about. An emotional affair is when you share confidences, secrets, and feelings with another person that should only be shared with your husband, wife, boyfriend or girlfriend. For an unsuspecting and faithful partner, these kind of affairs can be just as devestating and heartbreaking, make no mistake about it!

So before you embark on an extramarital love affair that you might regret, remember that there is nothing at all romantic about an affair or cheating on your spouse or lover. If you really do consider yourself a romantic person, do the honorable and right thing and break things off with your significant other before starting another relationship, whether physical or emotional.

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Romantic long distance relationships: some advice and tips

Okay, let’s get through the bad news first: most long distance relationships just don’t end up working out. But just because the majority of long distance romances end in failure doesn’t mean your long distance relationship has to, so start thinking optimistically and listen to some advice and tips on making your long distance romance work.

First of all, it’s impossible not to recognize the fact that long distance relationships were much more successful in the past, and that a long distance romance’s chances of success have suffered in our modern society. There are lots of examples of lovers who were forced to leave their partners in past wars for long periods of time, and the majority of those long distance relationships did succeed. World War I, World War II, etcetera . . . some of those marriages were split apart for three or four years, and all they had to keep in touch were sporadic romantic letters.

But wait a second . . . with modern technology, keeping in touch with your sweetheart is even easier, so should long distance relationships be more successful nowadays? Well sure, they should be, but the fact of the matter is that long distance romances are much more fragile today. You can blame it on a more impersonal, hook-up culture or society if you want, but long distance romances are much more difficult to maintain in our modern world.

That’s not to say that your long distance relationship is doomed to failure, though. First of all, what is the reason why you have to go away from your lover and have a long distance romance? Is it out of necessity, for instance a long business trip or perhaps a military deployment? And also, how serious are you with that special someone? Have you dated or been married for years, or are you undertaking a long distance relationship without really having spent much time with them in the first place?

Obviously, a relationship that is already strong and made up of two dedicated partners is much more likely to survive a long distance relationship than one that is shallower and less romantic. If you have plenty of early warning that you will have to start a long distance romance, use the time you have together to discuss what that will mean to your situation and how you will work to make sure you remain committed to each other and in love.

In fact, even if you don’t suspect that you will ever have to spend long periods of time away from your lover, it’s a good exercise to ask yourself how you think you would handle a long distance relationship and whether your romance would be strong enough to endure it. Time alone is important to every individual, no matter how much they enjoy their relationship with that special someone. It might be a good idea to practice spending an afternoon or even a few days away from each other—for a business trip or to visit family members—to reassure yourself that your relationship is healthy enough to endure a long distance situation.

In the end, the old saying about absence making the heart grow fonder is true—to a certain degree. If you and your sweetheart share true romance, then a long distance relationship shouldn’t pose any threat to your future happiness (as long as the absence isn’t too extensive). If, on the other hand, you and your lover lack romance and trust in your relationship, you may want to focus on building a healthier relationship before it’s time for you to hit the road.

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Does Confidence Attracts Love?

How do you attract love? How do you attract someone to love you? What do you do so that somebody comes forward and says- I love you? This is a very important question, because many of us are hungry for love that we never get. Let me talk about confidence. Does having confidence attract love?

Let us talk about your self. Do you get attracted to anybody who shows no confidence? Do you madly love anybody who is unsure about everything? Do you fall in romantic love with a person whose very walk and talk shows a very timid person? I do not think many of us will do that. We may pity that person. We may advise that person. But we will never love that person. For loving a person, we have to find a person who commands respect from us. Confidence can do that trick. Let us discuss about confidence and love.

Love and confidence- if you are a confident looking person, you have to take care of over confidence. Do you look aggressive or act smart at all the times? If yes, that can drive people away from you. We all love and respect a confident person, but not somebody who declares that he/she knows all the answers and is infallible. If you lack in confidence, you have to develop it with systematic analysis of your fears and doubts. Why do you have low confidence? Find out the reasons. Are you lacking in abilities or are afraid of using them or you area pessimist? Please think about your confidence level and increase it.

We get attracted to a person who commands respect from us. Confident looking people command respect. Develop confidence to win in the game of love.

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Expressing Love Should Be Natural

I looked in her eyes and I knew that she was in love with me. Her eyes told me that. I had asked him to meet me at five pm, and he was there at three thirty. I knew what was happening. His movements and his heartbeat told me all. I could see the fast steps that became faster when she reached me. I knew then. I was talking to him and he recited some old love poems he had written. He never made it appear as if the poems were written for somebody else. I knew that he was now reading them for me. Love, how to express love? Does it need any training? Or any books to read? Do love expressions need any guidance about what to do and what to avoid? It is natural.

Love is a divine feeling. Love is not for ordinary people who suspect a motive everywhere. Love is not for moneymakers who want to look for an opportunity everywhere. Love is not for those who are looking for a body. Love is for those who are searching for a soul that will give them heavenly joy. Love is for those who want to talk in silence. Love is for dreamers. Love is for losers, because they lose themselves in love. Love is for one who forgets the world in love. Love is a supreme feeling.

Despite all I read about relationships, break-ups, marriages and divorces, when I look at a couple in honest love I see a divine sight. I forget all my worries for the moment. for I am watching what God created, but we polluted. I watch love, a very innocent love and I love that. Please fall in love and express it with your body and soul. Naturally. No books, no articles and no guides. Let your love flow, and your sweetheart will understand. That is love. Enjoy the bliss of love.

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True Love Is Endless Love. It Lasts Forever. You Too Can Find It

Some people are likely to be skeptical about this. They do not believe there is such thing as endless love. If you are one of them, you have your reasons.

I understand your skepticism. Divorce rate is so high today that many conclude that love relationship is simply a waste of time . . . another avoidable stress. You can't blame them.

Many relationships that start so well with love, excitement and enthusiasm crash so fast that you begin to wonder whether all the euphoria was worth it.

Divorce rate is high . . . yes. But I still believe that there is such thing as true love and that true love is endless. Why?

It's not because I'm a dogmatic believer. Far from it. It's because . . .

• I'm immersed in true love. I experience genuine love everyday.
• My parents have been in love and happily married for 39 years. No fighting, no squibbles. And their love gets stronger everyday.
• I know people who have been in love longer than even my parents . . . and are still in love.

Is endless love real?

Ye-e-e-e-e-e-ssssh!

The good news is . . . you too can find true love. You can find endless love . . . love that lasts forever.

But how?

That is the big question. ??Please discuss and give your views..

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Love and romance in the Bible: quotes, verses and scriptures

Here on Romance Tracker, we’ve pointed out that love themes are present in almost every form of art, history and literature that humanity has ever produced. But what about love and romance in the Bible, which many people consider the greatest book ever written? Is there wisdom about romance and relationships in the quotes and scriptures of the Old Testament and the New Testament?

The most obvious answer that many faithful Christians would present is that the entire reason Jesus Christ died on the cross was for a great and deep love for mankind, and that there is no better example of selfless love in all of human history than in the New Testament of the Bible. While this may not entail romantic love, we have learned that there are many different types of love and that they are no less powerful than romance, and this is one excellent example of love in the Bible.

But beyond the example of Jesus’s love for mankind and his sacrifice on the cross, there are plenty of examples of romantic love in bible, as well. So many, in fact, that it would be impossible to name them all in one short article! The power of romantic love between a man and woman, and God’s approval of faithful marriages and long-term commitments, are present throughout the bible.

I’m sure all of us can easily think of the earliest example: Adam and Eve! This was the world’s first romance, and while things didn’t initially turn out too well for them in the bible (they were banished from heaven on Earth in the form of the Garden of Eden), it is arguable that their romance set the stage for love as it would exist throughout the rest of human history. And after Adam and Eve, there are endless examples of love and romance throughout the rest of the Old Testament and the New Testament.

So, does romance and love exist in the scriptures of the bible? Of course, and the stories are easily found in its pages. Love and romance are an important ingredient of every story in human history, and are every bit as present in the greatest book ever written!

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When is the last time you kissed your lover on the cheek?

Before you roll your eyes at the title of this post, remember that frequent small, romantic ideas are far more important to building better relationships and marriages than infrequent, elaborate gestures like expensive gifts or vacations. And giving your significant other a simple, heartfelt kiss on the cheek is an extremely effective, easy way to show you love them many times a day.

While many people might think of a kiss on the cheek as something a parent or grandparent gives to a child, you shouldn’t be afraid to use a quick peck on the cheek to express your feelings to your lover when time or circumstances don’t allow for anything more. When we’re in a hurry, when we’re about to leave each other, or when we meet briefly and unexpectedly, a kiss on the cheek is the perfect way to say “I love you.”

And for those of you who are afraid of seeming to be too clingy in public, a simple kiss on the cheek is a tasteful, unsappy way to express your love in front of others. If you can get comfortable enough to add holding hands with your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend in public, you’ll be on your way to a much more romantic, fulfilling relationship!

The next time you feel the urge to give your significant other a kiss, don’t let anything stop you. If you do, you might be missing out on a chance to add a whole lot more old-fashioned romance to your relationship!

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Separation - Take Advantage of the Alone Time

Marital separation can be tough, as it is the limbo between commitment and divorce. If you want to stay together, you have to deal with the conflicting emotions of dread and hope. If you want to leave, you have to deal with the guilt of hurting the other person and the weight of this huge decision. No matter which way you look at it, you are going to be stressed. The important thing is to see the silver lining and take advantage of the time to yourself.

What should you do?

1) Join a gym- Being physically fit is something you can feel good about whether you are single, married, divorced or even separated. Aside from the positive results, you will enjoy the feeling of doing something for yourself. It can also be a great way to work off any pent up anger, aggression or anxiety. Getting your endorphins flowing will give you the energy to get through the day as well as make you feel great.

2) Enjoy yourself- Beyond the basics of taking care of yourself, you need to remember to have fun also. Go out to dinner with your friends or grab one of them to go see a movie. You could even take it further and go on vacation. The bottom line is to do something that you enjoy doing. Also, don't be afraid to laugh. Some people find that they feel guilty for enjoying themselves, but while this is understandable, it is unnecessary. Go ahead, laugh it up. If relaxing is more of your thing, curl up with a good book. Losing yourself in the world of the characters can be a great temporary escape from the real world.

3) Try to sleep- If you are newly separated, it can't be easy sleeping all alone. If you lie awake with your mind racing, however, you are going to make the situation worse for yourself and everyone around you. Sleep is a restorative process, and lack thereof can lead to increased anxiety and depression, and even physical pain.

There are many natural remedies you can try, as well as daily practices such as exercising in the morning and winding down before bed. If this doesn't work you may want to consult your health care provider about the possibility of sleeping pills. They aren't for everyone, but if taken right they can work wonders for your everyday life. The bottom line is you need rest, so you can think clearly.

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Do you need intimacy

Intimacy in love means a close relationship that is highly satisfying. To be intimate means that you reveal yourself totally to your partner, hide nothing and feel very comfortable and free. it is like talking to yourself. You become so close and are so sure of your relationship that you talk to your partner as if you are talking to yourself. This kind of relationship has great joy and gives a new meaning to relationships. Now a days relationships are getting confined to physical and emotional needs are not being met. Are you also looking for intimate relationship? Why not quiz yourself about that?

Quiz your needs? Do you feel comfortable in an intimate relationship? Do you feel absence of intimate relationship? When you look at pictures of happy and intimate couples, do you feel little envious? Do you wish that you also had an intimate relationship? Or you feel comfortable as you are and do not want any one to come within your personal space. Do you wish to share others pains and pleasures or want to keep away from details and in a boundary? These are the questions that only you can answer. Please quiz yourself about these needs. This quiz will tell you about your deep felt needs and tell you what will satisfy you. Also quiz yourself if what you are thinking will truly give you joy?

Quiz your behavior - Quiz yourself about your behavior. If you need an intimate relationship then ask- why it is not developing? Quiz yourself about your choice of partner. Quiz yourself about your relationship with him/her and find out if that is responsible for not developing intimacy. Quiz your partner’s mind about his/her opinion. Quiz yourself about how to develop intimacy. Begin with small steps and watch the results. If you are happy with the initial results, please go deeper in the relationship and enjoy life.

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