When we fall in love?

The love is an area known to all, because all we have lived to experience. Everyone is good witness of what he experienced. But despite that remains enigmatic and elusive.
Francesco Alberoni in “falling in love and love” (Garzanti) explains that the characters falling in love has irrefutable and is between two lonely people: “The horizon of his membership, any universal value can release is linked to being complete with two members only. This is the reason for its specificity, its singularity, which gives it some unique character. ”

“Two people in a certain point in their lives, begin a shift, becoming available to secede from the previous works of love, from the previous links, to give rise to a new community. Then enter the nascent state, a fluid and creative, which recognize each other and tend to merge. In this way they form a we, a community with very high solidarity and high eroticism “(Extract from” I love you “, Francesco Alberoni, Garzanti).

We tend to fall in love when we are ready to change. Because we are inwardly changed, because it changed the world around us, because we can not achieve our longer wants or to express our potential. So let someone who is showing us the way and make us enjoy a new way of being.

We can therefore love at any age, but especially in the argument of our lives. When we move from elementary school to middle, then in high school, university, work or when we change, or when forty years of age or sixties or seventies, when old age begins. Or if the old relationship has been worn, or the world has changed and we seek a new agreement with it.