Sometimes we love our partner so much and give them so much in love ,just to make her/him happy try to do all possible and sometimes impossible to make her/him feel cared.why we all do all these things for our beloved only to make her/him feel best as he/she has the best partner in this world.But while doing all the things and becoming like your partner wanted to see,sometimes you do that you never wanted to do from heart.
But why we all do these mistakes don’t come to conclusion first by saying that people give their lives in love and i am saying something that is not acceptable as a lover.Let us find out why i am saying all this has a really very genuine reason behind it and if neglected you can lost your love also.
remember your first sight of love or the moment when you fall in love with your beloved and slowly move forward till today you will see so many changes in you only because of your partner,and for him/her you have changed yourself,what you were liking before all are lost.
It is really divine if you can see from the eyes of your partner what he/she likes but it is really difficult in real world.In love give ratio must be equal,if this ratio is either less or more or not balanced couples started fighting ,argue, and in the worst case they gets separated also.We are humans and when we do something we like to get appreciated for it if not getting anything in return.Lets take an example of office where your are working day and night very hard and far better than your colleagues but let us suppose two cases:
when your boss don’t know anything about your hard work and you are thinking that he will be knowing about your extraordinary hard work.and after sometimes when you approached him for a leave he said cant give you leave your performance is very bad and like that….at this moment what will you do…while you were doing hard work somewhere you must be thinking of getting perks or promotion and when you approached the scene was totally different.same in the case of love relationship you are doing everything for your partner what so ever you can and to do all this you are really staking your self respect,esteem but your partner don’t know or taking it as your duties and nothing more.And when circumstances comes where you believed that your partner will left her/him all comfort and will support you only and will not see anyone else before you you might get hurt badly.
Causes:because you never expressed your feelings till your partner accepts it and understands it.Even after doing all above normal things you are failed to get your partner realize the same.Al these kinds of scenario in life must be avoided as they can really make your relation hell.
try to maintain a ratio of giving between the two and also make each other feel and praise for anything you do for each other.
But why we all do these mistakes don’t come to conclusion first by saying that people give their lives in love and i am saying something that is not acceptable as a lover.Let us find out why i am saying all this has a really very genuine reason behind it and if neglected you can lost your love also.
remember your first sight of love or the moment when you fall in love with your beloved and slowly move forward till today you will see so many changes in you only because of your partner,and for him/her you have changed yourself,what you were liking before all are lost.
It is really divine if you can see from the eyes of your partner what he/she likes but it is really difficult in real world.In love give ratio must be equal,if this ratio is either less or more or not balanced couples started fighting ,argue, and in the worst case they gets separated also.We are humans and when we do something we like to get appreciated for it if not getting anything in return.Lets take an example of office where your are working day and night very hard and far better than your colleagues but let us suppose two cases:
when your boss don’t know anything about your hard work and you are thinking that he will be knowing about your extraordinary hard work.and after sometimes when you approached him for a leave he said cant give you leave your performance is very bad and like that….at this moment what will you do…while you were doing hard work somewhere you must be thinking of getting perks or promotion and when you approached the scene was totally different.same in the case of love relationship you are doing everything for your partner what so ever you can and to do all this you are really staking your self respect,esteem but your partner don’t know or taking it as your duties and nothing more.And when circumstances comes where you believed that your partner will left her/him all comfort and will support you only and will not see anyone else before you you might get hurt badly.
Causes:because you never expressed your feelings till your partner accepts it and understands it.Even after doing all above normal things you are failed to get your partner realize the same.Al these kinds of scenario in life must be avoided as they can really make your relation hell.
try to maintain a ratio of giving between the two and also make each other feel and praise for anything you do for each other.
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